Queer Kink Practitioner & Ritual Caregiver

Bay Area, Marin, Los Angeles and Online

PRAYEROTIC™

You don’t want a “tantra experience.”
You want to stop lying to yourself.

You’ve been doing the whole good guy / straight-enough / fine actually thing for a long time. You’ve built a life that works. You’re competent. People rely on you. You probably get told you’re solid.

And underneath that?
There’s this other current.

Curiosity you don’t talk about.
Softness you don’t show.
A desire to be wanted and taken in a way that doesn’t fit the script you were handed.

You don’t necessarily want to blow up your life.
You just want somewhere you can tell the truth and finally exhale.

That’s what this is.

I’m Praise (they/them).

I’m queer. I’m human. I am soft, strong, and as loving as they come.

I do PRAYEROTIC™ work—kink and ritual that treats desire like something worth honoring, not conquering, fixing, or turning into a performance. I offer deeply personal BDSM & holistic kink experiences right here in the San Francisco Bay Area.

This is not about being “more masculine” or “more spiritual” or “fully activated.”

Bleh.

It’s about noticing what you actually want when no one is watching, and admitting it.

This work is for men who are quietly questioning things

Men who think:

“I’m not gay, but… something’s there.”
“I want to be held by someone who understands this part of me.”
“I don’t want to be mocked, coached, or seduced—I want to be met.”
“I’m tired of pretending this curiosity will just go away.”

A lot of the men who find me are straight-identified. Or married. Or powerful in their day-to-day lives. Or deeply kind and deeply lonely in this one particular way.

You don’t have to label yourself.
You don’t have to explain your queerness correctly.
You just have to be honest.

Queer Kink Practitioner | Bay Area, CA | Praise

What Actually Happens Here

We name what you want without making it into a spectacle.
We map consent like it matters—because it does.
We notice your body instead of overriding it.

Sometimes there’s kink. You get to explore what that means to you with me as your guide.

There’s usually surrender. You may practice submission here, with a ton of care.

There’s always sacred stillness and a deep exhale you didn’t know you were holding.

Yes, I’m absolutely open to weird, taboo, edgy desires and kinks. Bring em on!
No, I’m not here to perform them at you.

A real thing I need to say

If you’re looking for:

a fantasy priestess
a character to project onto
someone to impress or shock
or a place to avoid your feelings

this is not it.

If you’re respectful, curious, a little scared, and very sincere—
we’ll probably do great work together.

I care deeply about the people I work with.
That’s why I screen. That’s why I slow things down. That’s why this isn’t casual.

Queer Kink Practitioner | Bay Area, CA | Praise

The practical stuff (because reality matters)

I require an intake call. No exceptions.
First sessions are a minimum of 2 hours.
I prioritize ongoing arrangements with people who want trust and continuity.
Single sessions are possible if you’re aligned and prepared.
I don’t do same-day sessions. This isn’t impulse work.
I work with people of all ancestry/race/orientations. No discrimination here.

Payment, deposits, and logistics are handled clearly during or after the intake call. No guessing, no games. Together, we create a custom experience tailored just for you.

Ready to Begin?

Visit and apply here

Say what’s true. Even if it’s messy.

Especially if it’s messy.

I’m not here to turn you into someone else.
I’m here to be with you while you stop pretending.

What Clients Say About My PRAYEROTIC Services:

“In a word, working with Praise was…f*cking amazing. Their medicine is unique, powerful, and transformative. I’ll be back for more.”

“Praise continues to peel back layers of inhibition and insecurity, helping me find new parts of myself. Their work is life-changing.”

“On my first visit with Praise I felt nervous but was made to feel very welcome and comfortable by their warm embrace and infectious smile. I knew right there that I was in good hands. Their touch and undivided attention were just what I needed to send me a million miles away from the everyday stressors of life. Praise was completely and utterly present for me. I left feeling loved, cared for, and relaxed.”

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I’m Praise, offering Holistic Kink sessions to individuals and couples of all orientations and levels of experience.

Praise ~ Queer Kink Practitioner & Ritual Caregiver

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