You’ve done personal growth work. Meditation, therapy, alternative modalities, maybe plant medicine. You’ve grown — but something in your relationship hasn’t kept up.
Maybe the spark has faded. Maybe sex has become routine, or rare, or just… fine. Maybe you keep hitting the same walls — the same fights, the same distance — and can’t break through. Or maybe things are good, but you know there’s more just out of reach. More fire. Deeper connection. More of what you glimpsed in those early days when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other.
I help couples go far beyond what they thought was possible.
I help couples unleash their full erotic potential — through tantra, plant medicine, and the relational and somatic work to release the baggage keeping you stuck.
What couples experience working with me:
“She’s become this powerful, seductive goddess — and my body responds instantly.”
“He’s a strong, sensitive beast who can open me with the gentlest touch.”
“She finally SEES me. After twelve years, she actually gets it.”
“Porn used to be a regular thing for me. Now our sex is so good I’ve totally lost interest in it.”
“I’ve learned to take up space and own my pleasure — and find the place where my deepest ecstasy meets his.”
“Sex goes on for hours now. Our sex life before was barely a shadow of what we have now.”
“I had no idea my body could do this. Multiple orgasms? Full-body waves of pleasure? I thought that was just for women.”
“Sex has become healing on levels I didn’t expect. Even my chronic back pain is gone.”
“I’ve learned to say YES to what I really want, and NO to what I don’t.”
“I healed old childhood trauma I didn’t even know I had. It opened up entirely new vistas of intimacy I couldn’t have imagined.”
“I used to have an abusive relationship with cannabis. This work helped me heal it and engage ganja as an ally.”
“We actually make time for each other now. The constant stress has lifted. Even our kids are calmer — I think because we’re finally getting our needs met.”
And beyond the bedroom: “The impact was so much bigger than my partnership. I learned what I really wanted in life and how to get it. My body transformed.
Even my dream career became a reality.”
Reigniting Couples | San Isidro de El General, Costa Rica | Chris
How I Work
I offer 3-month coaching containers for couples — up to 5 sessions per month with WhatsApp support between sessions. You’re also welcome to go session by session.
The foundation is relational work — starting with your relationship to YOU. Nurturing yourself is just as vital as nurturing your partnership. Internal challenges — shame, unmet needs, old wounds, lost desires — keep you from showing up as the man or woman you want to be. But when you come home to yourself, everything transforms.
These internal patterns manifest outwardly as lack of desire, cheating, sexual dysfunction, overeating, chronic pain, bickering, anxiety — even your kids acting out. The developmental wounds we pick up as children play themselves out destructively in our closest relationships. When you heal these oldest wounds, trust, authentic communication, and connection happen naturally — almost as if by magic.
Most importantly, the path runs through your body. I draw on twenty years of Tantra and Taoist sexuality, plus experience as a yoga teacher, massage therapist, breathwork facilitator, and Reiki master. I share practices in breath, energy, and touch — from soft and subtle to wildly animalistic — so you can discover dimensions of pleasure most couples never access.
For couples interested in cannabis or plant medicines, I offer guidance on integrating these allies with tantra and your erotic nature. If you’ve had a problematic history with ganja, this work can help you heal it. With the right ingredients, plant allies are a game changer.
I work online worldwide, focusing on the Americas in 2026. In-person sessions are possible under certain circumstances.
Is this for you?
This work is for couples who’ve done personal growth work individually or together and want to go deeper. You might have some background in yoga, meditation, or tantra — or you’re at least curious. You’re open to working with your bodies, not just your minds.
If your relationship is on the edge of ending, this work may help save it — or help you find the relationship you need. If you’re hungry for more — more pleasure, more juice, more of what you know is possible — let’s talk.
Next step
Visit my booking link for a free 30-minute discovery call. Both partners need to be present. We’ll talk about where you are, what you’re longing for, and whether this container is the right fit.
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