Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach

Boulder, Denver, Colorado Springs, Asheville, North Carolina

My Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach Boulder service welcomes individuals and couples of all genders and orientations.
I work virtually over Zoom as well as in-person locally.

I do not offer tantric massage, and no sexual contact or nudity is involved in any session. Please look elsewhere on this site if that’s what you’re seeking, and otherwise please read on and check out my website to learn about the life-changing journeys I offer. 🙂

How would your life change if you felt confident, empowered, vital and totally liberated in your sexual expression? Imagine how fulfilling your life will be …once you finally get out of your own way.

Sex is the source of creation, the place from which we all came– no pun intended 😉 — it’s the life force that permeates all of existence. When we heal our sexuality, we transform every area of our lives.

Hello Beloved, I’m Sureya.

I facilitate revitalizing, exploratory journeys for people who are hungry for change, inspired to create a life they love and committed to deep transformation.

Are you ready to take YOUR life to the next level?

I would be honored to be your guide in unlocking your juiciest potential and uninhibited brilliance.

I offer one-on-one and couples sessions, both in person in my Boulder studio, and over video chat, as well as online courses, and soon retreats. I work with all genders, sexual orientations and relationship dynamics.

I specialize in working with men’s sexuality. Ask me about my men’s courses, Vital Cockfidence and Multiorgasmic Vitality.

My work is rooted in the ancient wisdom and teachings of traditional Tantra and Taoist Sexuality, as well as Neo-Tantra and modern sex and relationship coaching practices. I offer this work in a way that is accessible and applicable to the modern westerner.

I specialize in helping you to:

-Fall madly in love with yourself

-Cultivate an unshakeable inner wellspring of confidence

-Release fear, shame, guilt, and trauma around your sexuality

-Unleash your orgasmic potential

-Master non-ejaculatory orgasms for men (becoming multiorgasmic)

-Cultivate and refine your sexual energy

-Become a masterful lover

-Merge sexuality with spirituality

-Explore conscious connection & intimacy for healthy, thriving relationships

-Express your authentic truth

-Clear blockages that are holding you back

-Return home to your true essence

-Explore the vast wisdom of Tantra & Taoism and weave them into every area of your life

My approach is compassionate, non-judgmental, empowering and authentic. Clients commonly express that they feel completely comfortable being vulnerable with me. I weave playful humor into this work, offering a deep, yet light-hearted adventure for those who are up for the challenge.

My sessions offer a new experience each time, and involve coaching, breathwork, meditation, somatic exploration (working with the body as a map to discover unconscious blockages), movement, Tantric & Taoist practices, connection,, laughter, toning, mantra, and more.

My greatest gift is holding the mirror at an angle for you to witness your own brilliance – and lovingly calling you on your shit, so you have 360 honest clarity on what you need to do to live your most fulfilling life.

Sharing this work is one of my deepest passions. I’ve been on this journey for seven years, and learning and growing more every day.

My clients say:

“Sureya is a very warm person. If you’re struggling with confidence or self esteem, I highly recommend her men’s program. Sessions with Sureya are just incredibly validating (but that doesn’t mean she won’t call you on BS), but more importantly she teaches you how to trust yourself and live your truth.” -Chris, Chambersburg, PA

“Before this course I didn’t know what to do. I had been addicted to porn for over 18 years, all of my relationships had failed due to some sort of sexual inadequacy, and my sense of confidence was gone. After being enrolled for just a couple weeks I can honestly say that it has forever changed my life. I have discovered new confidence and passion within myself. I have discovered parts of myself within me that I never knew existed, I never knew how to actually love myself before and give myself what I needed.

It has not only changed my views on sex, women, porn, and pleasure; it has challenged my own beliefs about myself and about my own desires. With this new feeling of confidence I feel compelled to create with my imagination again. I believe in myself for the first time in a very long time, maybe ever! I am so grateful for Sureya and for finding her course. It’s clear she has a passion for her work and it is so incredible to know that she has devoted her life to changing people’s beliefs about sex and about themselves.” -Julian, Scottsdale, AZ

“I got a standing ovation from my staff today. I feel truly respected as a leader and a lot of this had to do with working with you. I truly worked through some meditations beforehand and what you have taught me has been working. Amazing! I leave Every time inspired on life and thinking of next steps to be a better person! Thank you for the coaching over the last two years. It has helped me sooo much. I appreciate you! Thanks for being an amazing teacher. You rock! Make the call! Go in with an open mind and you will not be disappointed.” -Mehran, Aurora, CO

“So I just completed my first course with Sureya and I am brimming with excitement to meet my lover again in a whole new way—with a deeper sense of reverence… a greater confidence in myself and in us… an understanding of his body and his needs… a more embodied connection with my own… and the tools to support us to integrate these keys into an Awakened & Activated Love Life.

Sureya’s wisdom is like honey that pours through and seals any gaps in connection (that we may not even realized we had). With this nectar blooms a sense of true wholeness from which true, rich, fulfilling emotional & physical intimacy can emerge.

There is a melody now brewing in my body that I can’t wait to sing into his, because I feel like I now know how to listen in for his true rhythm.

Infinite is the harmony that can emerge from two souls learning how to be fully in their bodies, awakening pleasure, celebrating their humanness and exploring the limitless dimensions of our instruments. As we attune to the ways that they work & demystify the polarities between man and woman, our bodies learn to sing in tune.

Tonight I learned some of the most important pieces of information anyone has ever shared with me about relationship, that finally debunked the mystery of why it can be so challenging to understand men.

My level of compassion, patience, openness and acceptance increased almost as much as my excitement to crawl into bed with my lover and learn, listen and adore his everything.

Sureya’s wisdom is the perfect balance of esoteric and practical, spiritual and grounded; her embodied approach and relatability makes this experience accessible for people from all walks of life.

If you are on the fence, just do it. it’ll change your life—and not just your sex life.” -Violet, Asheville, NC

“Sureya’s Vital Cockfidence course was so honest. I’ve never been a part of anything so open and true. I found things about myself that I had not understood before. Even though I’m still working on the practices, I can already see change happening. I am happier, fuller, and more confident.” -Derek, St. Louis, MO

“Sureya is incredibly dedicated and devoted to her work, and you can feel this in all of her offerings. She has the ability and presence to truly meet people where they are, planting powerful seeds and offering beautiful, honest reflections to help build your confidence. Anyone could benefit from a session, a conversation or workshop with Sureya.” -Melanie, San Diego, CA

Treat yourself to the transformative journey of coming home to yourself. You deserve it. I look forward to co-creating with you.

My Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach Boulder service welcomes individuals and couples of all genders and orientations.
I work virtually over Zoom as well as in-person locally.

Visit me at www.sureyaleonara.com

Email me at sureyaleonara@gmail.com

Sureya Leonara ~ Tantric Sex & Relationship Coach

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