Embodyment Coach

Ashland, Oregon

My Embodiment Coach service is open to women, men, all genders couples & poly relationships.
I also travel Internationally
Visit my website – radicalembodimentarts.com

Embodiment Coach | Ashland, Oregon | River StarLight

I work primarily with women identified people who wish to develop an empowered, sex positive and healthy relationship to their body.

My work revolves around the principle that our bodies are Sacred and by reclaiming them as such, we begin to unwind cultural and systemic body shame and oppression.

Though my work focuses on women, I work with and welcome the full gender spectrum.

As an intimacy and embodiment coach I hold a gentle but solid safe space for you to explore your relationship to intimacy, pleasure and consent. Most of us grow up with very little sex and intimacy education, which leads to an illiteracy in intimacy arts, both with ourselves and with others. The negative consequences of cultural shaming of our bodies and sensuality range from disconnection from our ability to feel pleasure, to shaky or nonexistent boundaries and in extreme ( but very common cases ) sexual violence, especially against women.

We hold a lot of grief, pain and scar tissues in our bodies (and in our womb and yonis especially), as a result of existing in a culture in which our somatic sexual safety is not guaranteed. My work is about bringing presence to where we have disconnected from your body and pleasure, and with patience start to cultivate a somatic capacity to feel sensation and awaken the body’s innate ability to be orgasmic. This process is not all ecstasy, sometimes it’s a lot of pain, sometimes it’s numbness. Sometimes it is laughter, sometimes it’s crying, sometimes it’s waves of ecstasy, sometimes it’s everything in between.

The only “point” of this work is somatic safety. Everything else happens as an organic unfolding of coming back to the body and to our naturally sensual natures.

This is for you if:

You wish to have a safe space where sensual energy can be welcomed and celebrated instead of shamed and shut down,
You crave intimate, loving and safe touch that can bring to the surface your capacity for joy, pleasure and sensation,
You have a hard time expressing your intimacy needs with your partner(s),
You struggle with boundaries and knowing what your needs are,
You want to increase and awaken your body’s ability to feel higher degrees of pleasure,
You want to experience a somatic sense of safety in an intimate context,
You want to heal your relationship to Eros and reclaim it as natural and sacred,
You want to cultivate a bridge between spirituality and Eros,
You want to learn more about your body and erotic anatomy,
You want to practice and integrate consent awareness into your relationships for a more authentic and safe relating.

What a somatic intimacy session can do for you:

Help you regulate your nervous system and cultivate a somatic sense of safety,
Cultivate a healthy and natural relationship to pleasure,
Release feels good endorphins that help you feel connected, loved and profoundly relaxed,
Help you get in touch with what feels good for you intimately and ask for it,
Cultivate a strong sense of sovereignty over your body,
Experience touch as something you are in control of, not something that happens “to you”,
Become aware of all the ways you were touched that didn’t feel aligned in a safe and nurturing space,
Circulate erotic energy through the body for a wonderful and joyful state of being,
Practice asking for what you want and FULLY receiving it,
Explore and learn consent for a more empowered erotic life,
Explore creative ways to integrate Eros in your everyday life,
Help you become intimate with your own unique body,
Help you appreciate and love your body more.

A little about me… I love traveling and exploring my sensuality by connecting to nature. I am highly explorative and I love to feast my senses on new foods, new cultures and new connections. My body is my ever-present compass that guides me into a deeper state of embodiment, pleasure, and authentic relating. The space I hold is safe, compassionate and grounded and my energy is sacred, playful and empowered.”

Somatic intimacy session (blend of tantra, taoist massage and somatic sexological work)

Womnx and BIPOC: $250 90 MIN / 2 hrs $300

All other individuals: $300 90 min / 2hrs $350

Couples and other partnership dynamics: $450 90 min/ $500 2hrs

My Embodiment Coach service is open to women, men, all genders couples & poly relationships.

Visit me at radicalembodimentarts.com

Email me at river@radicalembodimentarts.com

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