Somaros — Embodied truth, held with care.

New York, New Jersey

If intimacy, pleasure, or connection to your body has felt complicated, distant, or heavy, you are not alone. This is an identity-affirming space to return to the sovereignty of your body, reclaim pleasure, and rebuild self-trust through consent, nervous system safety, gentle presence, and eros.

I work with women and vulva-owners of any gender who survived what should have never happened. I work with queer, trans, and nonbinary folks who live in bodies the world has tried to define for them.

The result of our work together often looks like softening shame, strengthening boundaries, developing the confidence to ask for what you want, and reconnecting with your erotic energy, spiritual communion, and overall aliveness (eros) and sense of wholeness, all at the pace of trust.

Sacred Intimate | New York | Kelly

Why Work With Me

As a trans non-binary human, I combine my lived experience of childhood trauma, leadership, queerness, and medical congruence with certifications, trainings, coursework, and in-person intensives in the fields of trauma-informed coaching, gender advocacy, scar massage, genital dearmoring, sexual trauma, platonic intimacy, somatic emotional release, somatic sex education, sacred intimacy, and energy work.

This work is my life’s purpose, and I hold each client’s uniqueness with reverence.

Sessions & Services

Sessions are offered based on client preferences and comfort level. Platonic intimacy sessions are 1-3 hours. Sacred intimate work is offered as 3-hour sessions or 2-3 day intensives (5 hours per day).

Each session itself is shaped by a client’s needs, goals, and desires—and by what we agree on together. We begin with intention-setting and agreements, then move at the pace of trust. Both types of sessions may include grounding, nervous system support, somatic awareness practices, consent and boundary coaching (including language for choice and voice), therapeutic touch, and integration practices. Sacred intimate sessions may also include therapeutic bodywork (yoni, lingham, anal massage), scar softening, pleasure mapping, mindful erotic practice, maturbation coaching, or partnered erotic practice.

Sacred Intimate | New York | Kelly

Client Testimonials

“I love the notion that everything is an experiment and we can try new and different things each time. I can ask for what I want and have that request discussed openly and honored, which I am taking with me into other parts of my life.” ~ J

“I can safely say I’ve never felt so seen, sexy, and cared for all in one before, and I want to keep growing that inwardly. I’m genuinely excited to continue this exploration, as I realize how slowing down and checking in with myself is really what I have needed.” ~ K

“I really appreciate the space to explore my feminine side with Kelly. Our time together was the most intense amount of pleasure I’ve ever allowed myself to experience with another person… It was beautiful in ways I never expected.” ~ E

Screening & Booking Process

Start with the Somaros Intake , which can also be accessed from my website if you’d like to read more information and FAQs before moving through that process.

I reply to each inquiry, and if it seems we’re a fit, we’ll schedule a short video call to meet and discuss your intake details. If it still feels aligned, we will go over logistics and next steps, which include a client release waiver, invoice, and calendar invitation with all necessary information.

This process is designed to offer each of us the ability to feel safe enough to begin co-creating a container together.

* A sliding fee scale is available for BIPOC, queer, trans, and nonbinary clients. If cost is a barrier, simply note that in your intake, and we will discuss options with care.

If your body is curious, if something in you is asking for a different relationship with intimacy, or if you are simply tired of carrying shame or discomfort that was never yours, all of you is welcome here.

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I’m Kelly, a Sacred Intimate, and I work with women, SA survivors who are AFAB (assigned female at birth), and queer, trans, and nonbinary clients of all races, sexual identities, ages, body types, physical abilities, and relational constellations.

Kelly ~ Sacred Intimate, Somatic Practitioner

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