My Sacred Sex Guide service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
Welcome — I’m Ashley.
I’m here to help you feel safe in your body and free in your expression.
If you’ve experienced anxiety or shame around your sexuality, let’s partner to rewrite the stories that no longer serve you. If you’ve been told you’re too much, I’m here to honor all of you. And if you simply want to feel more — more sensation, more connection, more joy — we can make that happen.
Our time together is grounded, safe and co-created — an invitation into your most authentic erotic self, free from pressure or performance.
Sacred Sex Guide | Boulder, Denver, CO | Ashley
What Is Pleasurework?
Pleasurework is a sacred blend of somatic healing, erotic empowerment, intimacy coaching and soulful play. It’s a space to soften, awaken and celebrate.
This work gently dissolves the blocks you’ve accumulated throughout life and invites radical self-permission, healing and fulfillment.
Together, we’ll create a space free from shame, judgment, or guilt — a sacred sanctuary where you can explore, feel and flourish in your erotic truth.
Who I Am
Before coming to this work, I spent years as a startup executive in the tech world, building and scaling organizations. That path taught me how to hold intensity, lead with clarity, and support deep transformation. Ultimately, I was called to turn inward — and toward others — in a new way.
Now I devote myself to embodied healing and sacred connection — holding space for the full radiance of who you are.
I love helping people feel amazing. In our sessions, you’ll be seen, heard and supported. This is your space to let go and open up to something more. More ease. More aliveness. More play. More pleasure : )
Offerings
- Daka work
- Sensual bodywork
- Surrogacy
- BDSM (with me as the dominant)
- Custom bespoke experiences and scene planning
- Sex and intimacy coaching
- Video or phone sessions
- Travel companionship
Each session is a sacred, shame-free space where your nervous system can soften and your authentic erotic self can emerge. There’s no goal, no performance — just an invitation to be exactly as you are and explore what’s possible.
Session Investment
Online sessions: $200/hour
In-person sessions: $400/hour (2-hour minimum)
Deposit required to confirm all sessions
Travel available with additional consideration
I also offer overnight sessions and weekend-long immersions for deep transformation, extended connection, or ceremonial intimacy. These are custom-designed and individually priced.
Most clients benefit from ongoing work and I’m happy to design a container that fits your goals and supports your unfolding journey.
Duos and Multi-Practitioner Sessions
I collaborate with a trusted network of practitioners — primarily women — especially in the Boulder and Denver area. If you’re curious about co-creating with multiple guides, we can design something exquisite.
Practitioners I work with include:
Travel Availability
I’m based in Colorado and often travel to the SF Bay Area. I’m also available nationally and internationally. If you’d like to meet elsewhere, just ask — I love creating experiences in new places.
Next Steps
Curious? Let’s talk.
I offer complimentary 40-minute video consultations to explore alignment and answer questions. In-person sessions are scheduled only after we’ve connected via video — to ensure resonance and care.
Please email me at ashleyloveslife@proton.me to arrange a mutually convenient time.
Testimonials
“A loving, centered, and evolved man…
Ashley has been such an amazing man to have on my healing journey. He helped me feel safe, centered, and loved as I was working through rape trauma from when I was a young girl. He showed up for me session after session to help facilitate a healthy sense of self around my sexuality. Most importantly, he helped free the body shame with his loving words and presence. I highly recommend him if you would like a loving, centered, and evolved man to be with.” – Adele
“He showed a wounded feminine warrior how to find herself again…
Ashley came highly recommended after I delicately sought a strong masculine to guide me on the next phase of my healing journey. Complex PTSD from years of rape and sexual violence had left me distrusting of men while also craving masculine energy. The longing to be held, to feel safe, and to feel pleasure had eluded me for years. It took the strong, secure masculine of Ashley to hold all of that, all of me, and walk me toward feeling more comfortable and confident in my own body. To feel safe — like I deserve to be treasured and not trampled — was priceless.” – Ridley Grace
My Sacred Sex Guide service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
