My Sacred Sex Guide service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
Welcome! I’m Ashley – thank you for being here!
If you’ve experienced anxiety or shame around your sexuality, let’s partner to rewrite old stories and patterns that are holding you back. If you’ve been told that you’re too much, I’m here to witness and encourage all of you. If you simply want to feel good, we can make that happen. My mission is to help you feel safe in your body so that you can enjoy more love, ecstasis, and passion in your life.
We all have blocks and limitations related to experiencing pleasure – our journey will help relieve those blocks and inspire transformation – enabling radical self-permission, long-lasting change, and the fulfillment of your deepest desires. Together, we’ll co-create experiences that enable you to explore your fully-expressed, erotic self in a safe and nurturing space. We’ll design a container free of judgment, shame, and guilt – where safety, celebration, and pleasure flow effortlessly.
Sacred Sex Guide | Boulder and Denver, CO, SF Bay Area, CA | Ashley
I emanate a calm, grounding presence, and delight in forming connections where the infinite can unfold. It’s a true honor to share space and energy with people that are hungry for erotic expansion and curious about what’s possible. I love helping others feel amazing, and in our sessions, you will feel seen, heard, and nurtured. Our time together is an opportunity to be at ease and open up to something more. More joy. More love. More play. More pleasure : )
My professional experience includes substantial time as a technology startup executive, helping to build and scale organizations. During the last seven years, I have transitioned toward the healing, heart-centered offerings listed below. Through my own inner work, I’ve discovered that my purpose on this planet is to hold safe containers for full expression. Helping clients remember who and what they really are (infinitely capable, timeless beings with a birthright to pleasure) vs what society/others expect them to be is exactly why I’m here.
Sacred Sex Guide Offerings
My offerings include:
- Daka work
- Sensual bodywork
- Energetic play
- Surrogacy
- Erotic scene planning
- Sacred intimacy
- Sex/intimacy coaching
- BDSM scenes (with me as the dominant)
- Erotic video/phone sessions
- Custom bespoke erotic experiences
- Travel companionship.
All of these are focused on helping you experience your sacred sensuality in a safe space free from expectations or pressures – there’s no right or wrong, nowhere to get to, and no goals to reach – we’re simply unlocking the bliss that is already inside of you.
Session considerations – Online sessions start at $200/hr, and in-person sessions start at $400/hr. There is a 2 hour minimum for all in-person meetings, and I’ve found that clients benefit from a series of sessions over time. Deposits are required for all sessions, and travel time to you requires additional consideration.
Duos and multiple practitioners – I have relationships with and work with a number of practitioners (mostly women, some men), especially in the Boulder/Denver area. If you’d like to arrange a multi-practitioner experience, let me know! Here are some of the practitioners I work with:
Travel – I’m based in Boulder, but love to travel, and am happy to meet you almost anywhere. In addition to the locations listed, I’m open to many other locations including; Portland, Los Angeles, San Diego, Salt Lake City, Las Vegas, Phoenix, Dallas, Houston, Chicago, Orlando, Miami, New York, Boston, Washington DC, Mexico, Costa Rica, Europe, and more! Please feel free to ask if this is of interest.
Next Steps
If you’re curious what our time together could look like, I’d love to hear from you. I’m offering 40-minute, no cost introductory video meetings to see if we’re in alignment.
I only schedule in-person sessions with people that I’ve talked to via video. Please contact me at ashleyloveslife@proton.me. Thank you for reading my profile and thanks again for being here!
Testimonials
“Ashley has been such an amazing man to have on my healing journey. He helped me feel safe, centered, and loved as I was working through rape trauma from when I was a young girl. He showed up for me session after session to help facilitate a healthy sense of self around my sexuality. Most importantly, he helped free the body shame with his loving words and presence. I highly recommend him if you would like a loving, centered, and evolved man to be with.” – Adele
“Ashley came highly recommended after I delicately sought a strong masculine to guide me on the next phase of my healing journey. Complex PTSD from years of rape and sexual violence, early and often, had left me distrusting of men while also craving masculine energy in my life. The longing to be held, to feel safe, and to feel pleasure had eluded me for years. When the craving and the fear are so intertwined it becomes paralyzing…it took the strong, secure masculine of Ashley to hold all of that, all of me, and walk me towards feeling more comfortable and confident in my own body. Showing a wounded feminine warrior how to find herself again is truly a gift. Trust is earned slowly over time, for ourselves and others, but taking a step like this with him was huge for me to believe that it is okay, that I am okay. To feel safe, and like I deserve to be treasured and not trampled, was priceless. With eternal gratitude.” – Ridley Grace
My Sacred Sex Guide service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
