WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU FELT TRULY SEEN?
When was the last time you slowed down enough to feel your body, your breath, your desire?
When was the last time you allowed yourself to be curious without needing to perform, explain, or rush?
Sometimes it begins as a quiet curiosity. A feeling that there is more to feel, more to explore, more to experience than what life has allowed lately.
This work is an invitation to explore that space with intention, clarity, and care.
WHO THIS IS FOR
I work with adults of all genders, typically 25 and over, who are open, curious, and ready to explore connection with their bodies in a deeper way.
I support:
- Men who are curious about kink, BDSM, prostate play, or power dynamics, often for the first time, and want a grounded, respectful introduction.
- Women who want to reconnect with their bodies, release tension or pain, and explore sensation and pleasure through intentional touch.
- Couples who want to deepen intimacy, communicate more clearly, and explore sensual or kinky play together with guidance and structure.
No prior experience is required. Curiosity, honesty, and openness are enough.
WHAT WE’LL EXPLORE TOGETHER
Every experience begins with conversation. We take time to discuss boundaries, desires, curiosities, and intentions before anything unfolds. From there, each session is curated specifically for you.
Experiences may include:
- Sensual & Tantric Massage
Slow, intentional touch designed to relax the nervous system, awaken sensation, and support deeper presence and receptivity.
- Conscious BDSM & Kink Exploration
Guided experiences that may include sensation play, impact, bondage, discipline, or ritual, approached with care, consent, and awareness rather than performance.
- Embodiment & Intimacy Guidance
Support with communication, desire, boundaries, and learning how to stay present with sensation, individually or with a partner.
- Energetic & Sensory Elements
Sound healing, aromatherapy, breathwork, meditation, or ceremonial touches such as cacao may be woven in when they support the experience.
The space itself is warm and inviting. Candles are lit. The fireplace is often on. Scent moves through the room. Many people notice their body softening the moment they arrive.
ABOUT ME
I have been a curious soul for as long as I can remember. Curious about life, meaning, the body, and the quiet language of sensation.
From a young age, I felt drawn to kink and power dynamics, though those parts of me were later tucked away beneath responsibility, commitment, and a relationship that slowly pulled me away from my body and pleasure. Over time, I became busy, disconnected, and numb in ways that were subtle but deeply felt.
In 2017, I made a conscious decision to reclaim myself. Through meditation, mindfulness, and a three-month women’s circle container, I experienced what I now call a sexual awakening. I learned how to listen to my body again, how to say yes to my desires, and how to honor the parts of me that had been quiet for years.
As I deepened into this work, I noticed a divide between spirituality and BDSM, as if they belonged to separate worlds. For me, they never did. I felt called to bridge them, blending presence, ritual, and conscious kink into a single, integrated path.
This work exists because of that journey.
TRAINING & FOUNDATIONS
- Underlined World Tantra BDSM Immersion
- MistressClass Academy (Domina Colette Pervette)
- 7 Days of Domination with international Pro Dommes
- Certified Sound Healer (Templo CoyoShakti)
- AromaTouch® Technique (doTerra)
- Reiki Levels 1 & 2
MY APPROACH
My style is best described as Sensual Tantric BDSM.
I am not a traditional dominatrix. I am not interested in intimidation, performance, or rigid roles. I work with intention, presence, and attunement.
I care about how you arrive and how you leave. I care about your nervous system, your breath, and your ability to stay present with sensation and power. Whether we are working with touch, ritual, or kink, the focus is on awareness and choice rather than pushing or proving anything.
This work invites you to soften where you have been guarded, to explore desire without rush, and to experience power and surrender in a way that feels grounded and conscious.
People often leave feeling more relaxed, more open, and more curious about themselves than when they arrived. Over time, this approach supports clearer communication, deeper confidence, and a more embodied relationship with pleasure and power.
EXPERIENCES BEGIN AT:
$500 per hour
90-minute minimum
CONNECTING
There are a few ways to begin. Choose what feels most comfortable for you.
- Email
You’re welcome to email me directly and introduce yourself. Share a bit about who you are, what you’re curious about, and what’s calling you to reach out.
- Website Submission Form
You may visit my website and complete the submission form. This helps me understand your interests and intentions so we can explore next steps.
- Text Message
If you prefer to text, please include your name, location, and a brief introduction about yourself so I can respond with clarity and care.
- Low-Commitment Zoom Consultation
If you prefer a more personal starting point, I offer a 30-minute Zoom consultation. This is a $50, low-commitment call where we meet face-to-face, explore fit, and discuss what you’re looking for. For many, this is the simplest way to begin.
Email: Lilithnoirexperience@proton.me
Phone: (619) 535-9244
Submission form on my website.
AN INVITATION
If you feel curious, open, and ready to explore sensation, presence, and connection in a way that feels intentional and real, I invite you to reach out.
This is a co-creation. We build the experience together.
