My Sex Coaching service welcomes men.
I know that loving touch and authentic connection are essential for life. Yet in modern culture, men don’t often have the contexts, permission, or range of options to find what they truly want, or create it with lovers or partners.
Sex Coaching for Men | Boulder, CO | Exquisite Arrow
Sex Coaching for Men
You’re not alone. Many men have been hurt or confused by their relationships, desires, boundaries, communication styles, or by sex itself. My work is grounded in our therapeutic relationship, with the intention of growing your sexual skills, emotional intelligence, communication, and embodiment. I blend conversation with on-the-spot guidance, intimacy, and practical exercises — all in a non-judgmental, loving context.
I meet you where you are.
- Discover & explore your deepest desires
- Improve your sexual skills
- Learn how to escalate a sexual encounter, with confidence and consent
- Learn how to “read” and synch-up with a partner
- Meet others with playfulness, excitement and choice in the face of giving or receiving a “no.” (What do we get to do?)
- Relax into affection, nurturance, and feminine touch without pressure to perform
About
My approach is warm, playful and present, giving you the time, experiences, and tools to transform shame and stress into embodied presence and power. With me, you get to authentically explore your desires, darkness and light, and have an uncomplicated intimacy. And have fun doing it!
I’m a certified sex & relationship coach, sexological body-worker, cuddle therapist, and psychedelic guide, with 20 years’ in meditation, psychology, religion and somatics. My background includes 17 years as a Tibetan Buddhist, 3+ years in sexual shamanism, ritual BDSM, and as an assistant in International School of Temple Arts. I’m a medical professional in emergency medicine, with a background in prisons, hospice and international aid.. Bring your stress and difficult days – I’m here for it.
Services
My sessions are designed to meet your desires, with a blend of structure and spontaneity, arousal and peace. We begin with a 15-min intake call to verify each other, answer questions, and understand what you want to gain or explore in our intimacy together — so I can give you exactly what you want!
Cuddle Therapy
(90 min) $150
Clothes-on, guided platonic touch. Be held and nurtured; unwind, and receive unconditioned affection. Designed to increase your capacity for sensation and pleasure, this experience is your opportunity to drop into connection and nourishing relaxation.
Sacred Sensual Exploration
(3 hrs) $1100
One-way massage and ritual touch. My clothes may be on or off to facilitate our time together, with bikini areas covered. Receive embodied touch & guidance around desires, skills, anatomy, energetics, and sensual awakening.
Sacred Companion Touch
(3 hrs) $1500
A VIP experience. This session includes everything in “Sensual & Tantric Massage”, but with two-way touch. Combining arousing and healing touch, guided embodied practices, and a final blissful experience for both of us, this is a bespoke and highly experiential session of massage and erotic intimacy.
Overnight
(up to 11 hours) $400
Deepen what you know is possible. Add this to any above session. You don’t have to sleep but you have to be able to relax enough for me to sleep! The latest I arrive to you is 9p; my departure is 8a (or earlier if you need). Please have a cozy space prepared for us, and be showered with good hygiene, ready to receive me.
Please note I do not offer escort services.
Deposit & Cancellation policy
Deposit of $200 required for each session. 48-hour cancellation notice. Cancellations less than 48 hours necessitates I keep your deposit. You may rebook at no cost for up to 2 months in advance. Multiple cancellations and rebookings impacts my ability to book with you in the future.
Reach me via text 720-515-7430. 100% private & confidential.
My Sex Coaching service welcomes men.
Email me at: exquisitearrow@gmail.com
