I’m Exquisite Arrow, I offer Sex Coaching for men.
I know that loving touch and authentic connection are essential for life. Yet in modern culture, men don’t often have the contexts, permission, or range of options to find what they truly want, or create it with lovers or partners.
Sex Coaching for Men | Boulder, CO | Exquisite Arrow
Sex Coaching for Men
You’re not alone. Many men have been hurt or confused by their relationships, desires, communication styles, or sex itself. My work is grounded in our therapeutic relationship, with the intention of growing your sexual skills, emotional intelligence, communication, and embodiment. I blend touch with on-the-spot guidance, intimacy, and practical exercises — all in a non-judgmental, loving context.
I meet you where you are.
- Discover & explore your deepest desires
- Improve your sexual skills
- Learn how to escalate a sexual encounter, with confidence and consent
- Learn how to “read” and synch-up with a partner
- Relax into affection, nurturance, and feminine touch without pressure to perform
About
My approach is warm, playful and present, giving you the time, experiences, and tools to transform shame and stress into embodied presence and power. With me, you get to authentically explore your desires, darkness and light, and have an uncomplicated intimacy. And have fun doing it!
I’m a certified sex & relationship coach, sexological body-worker, cuddle therapist, and psychedelic guide, with 20 years’ in meditation, psychology, religion and somatics. My background includes 17 years as a Tibetan Buddhist, 2 years in sexual shamanism, ritual BDSM, and as an assistant in International School of Temple Arts. I’m a medical professional in emergency medicine, with a background in prisons, hospice and international aid.. Bring your stress and difficult days – I’m here for it.
Services
My sessions are designed to meet you where you are — while supporting and challenging you to expand. Time with me is a blend of structure and spontaneity, arousal and peace, education and intuition. First-time clients will have a 15-min intake video call to answer questions, and understand what you want to explore in our time together.
Cuddle Therapy
250 / 60 min
The perfect wind-down to a long day. Designed to increase your capacity for relaxation and pleasure, this experience is your time to drop into connection and nourishing sensation without need to perform or give.
Somatic Sex Coaching
250 / 60 min
Baffled, frustrated or disappointed by blocks in your communication, relationships, or with your long-term partner? Has age, birth traumas, health changes, or an injury impacted the way you feel about yourself or your partner? Do you keep choosing the same relationships hoping for something to be different?
This is coaching designed to build on itself over time. Come into your body; discover your true desires; unwind your wounds and triggers; and learn how to flirt, date, and create powerful erotic moments with another.
Tantric Massage
600 / 60 min
800 / 90 min
* I strongly recommend 90 min for first-time clients; we can get to know each other, and sink in together.
A traditional tantric massage blends the ancient art of Tantra with modern sensual techniques to create a profound experience of relaxation and awakening. This massage focuses on circulating energy throughout the body, enhancing emotional and physical intimacy through mindful touch and breath work. By honoring the body as a temple of the spirit, this massage not only releases tension but also deepens the connection between mind, body, and soul.
The Date
1500 / 3hr+
Looking to have a beautiful, sophisticated, educated woman on your arm for a date, a dinner, a ballgame, or a special event? An intimate, curated experience of bonding and connection. Take the reins, or let me take care of you. I’m here for it. Let’s create something special together!
Sacred Spot
750 / 3hr as a stand-alone session
200, as an add-on to any tantric massage
Experience radical healing. This is a bespoke session that introduces you to the deepest parts of yourself and can dramatically alter how you see and use your energy, body and emotions. Includes somatic coaching, emotional release, and family and inner child work. Please inquire for details.
Interested?
For next steps, please text or email the following information:
1. Name
2. Bio: Age, Occupation, City
3. Desired Meeting Date/Time/Length
4. Your desires for our time together. What inspires you, what do you want to achieve?
5. A selfie of you holding a government issued ID
6. Social media with current photos (LinkedIn, FB or IG)Please know, I do not answer phone calls.
Deposit and Cancellation Policy
I ask for a 20% deposit in order to have our first call. This level of commitment helps us both settle in, knowing that we both take our time together seriously. We’ll then have a brief video call; you can see me, I can see you. If we both agree we’re a great fit, we’ll schedule a session. Deposits and fees can be sent via Cashapp. If after our brief video call, you or I choose to not work together, I will refund your deposit.
If you need to cancel your session, and you let me know more than 24 hours in advance, I can apply your deposit to a rescheduled booking within the next 3 months. If you cancel within 24 hours, or no-show, I do require an additional 25% cancellation fee. In the rare case that I have to cancel I will return your deposit.
The journey of 1000 miles starts with a single step. I invite you to take this step towards your own power, pleasure, and purpose. We’re in it together.
I can’t wait to meet you!
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My Sex Coaching service welcomes men.
Email me at: exquisitearrow@gmail.com
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Phone: 720-515-7430
