My Sex Coaching service welcomes men.
I know that loving touch and authentic connection are essential for life. Yet in modern culture, men don’t often have the contexts, permission, or range of options to find what they truly want, or create it with lovers or partners.
Sex Coaching for Men | Boulder, CO | Exquisite Arrow
Sex Coaching for Men
You’re not alone. Many men have been hurt or confused by their relationships, desires, communication styles, or sex itself. My work is grounded in our therapeutic relationship, with the intention of growing your sexual skills, emotional intelligence, communication, and embodiment. I blend touch with on-the-spot guidance, intimacy, and practical exercises — all in a non-judgmental, loving context.
I meet you where you are.
- Discover & explore your deepest desires
- Improve your sexual skills
- Learn how to escalate a sexual encounter, with confidence and consent
- Learn how to “read” and synch-up with a partner
- Relax into affection, nurturance, and feminine touch without pressure to perform

About
My approach is warm, playful and present, giving you the time, experiences, and tools to transform shame and stress into embodied presence and power. With me, you get to authentically explore your desires, darkness and light, and have an uncomplicated intimacy. And have fun doing it!
I’m a certified sex & relationship coach, sexological body-worker, cuddle therapist, and psychedelic guide, with 20 years’ in meditation, psychology, religion and somatics. My background includes 17 years as a Tibetan Buddhist, 2 years in sexual shamanism, ritual BDSM, and as an assistant in International School of Temple Arts. I’m a medical professional in emergency medicine, with a background in prisons, hospice and international aid.. Bring your stress and difficult days – I’m here for it.

Services
My sessions are designed to meet your desires, with a blend of structure and spontaneity, arousal and peace. First-time clients will have a 15-min intake video call to answer questions, and understand what you want to explore in our time together.
Cuddle Therapy
(75 min) $120
Clothes-on, platonic touch. Unwind, and receive unconditional warmth and affection. Designed to increase your capacity for relaxation and pleasure, this experience is your time to drop into connection and nourishing sensation without need to perform or give.
Tantric Massage
(2 hrs) $750
One-way full-body tantric and sensual massage. Increase your stamina, explore your desires. Receive guidance on skills, anatomy, energetics, and erotic awakening.
Sacred Companion Touch
(2.5 hrs) $900
Two-way full-body tantric play. Combining arousing touch, guided embodied practices, and a blissful experience for both of us, this is a bespoke and experiential session of erotic intimacy.
Sacred Spot
(2.5 hrs) $500
Healing one-way touch. This is a bespoke session that introduces you to the deepest parts of yourself and can alter the course of your life.
The Luxury
(4 hrs) $2000
Step into what you know is possible — spend 4 luxurious, intimate hours with me. Please arrive showered, with low-scent hygiene, ready to receive and be received by me.
Platonic Companionship
(up to 6 hrs) $200 1st hour, $100 every hour after
The perfect way to connect and get to know each other. Take me out for coffee, dinner, a picnic in the sunshine, a day at a ballgame, or a fun adventure! Experience dating, holding stimulating conversation, or just have an educated beautiful woman on your arm.
I check for new client inquiries every 24-48 hours. You can reach me by phone, email, or book a 15-min consultation video call here. You can see me; I can see you. We can get a feel for each other, and make sure we’re a great fit. I will send you my confidential screening form for you to fill out before our call.
Screening: For safety and accountability, I require a photo ID or LinkedIn profile with 300+ connections to see you in my beautiful, private space. This will stay absolutely private. Everything is discrete.
Deposit and Cancellation Policy
For our 15-min video call, if you cancel within 24 hours or no-show, I require a $30 rebooking fee to reschedule. For sessions, there is a deposit of 20% your session rate. Cancellations less than 48 hours necessitate I keep your deposit. Multiple cancellations and rebookings impacts my ability to book with you in the future.
I’m excited to meet you!
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My Sex Coaching service welcomes men.
Email me at: exquisitearrow@gmail.com
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Phone: 720-515-7430