Invitation
You have built an amazing relationship.
You have been together for years. You have weathered hard seasons. You love each other deeply. From the outside, your life looks solid and your marriage looks amazing.
But inside the bedroom, something is stuck.
You might argue about initiation. One of you feels unwanted. The other feels pressured and afraid of rejection. Shame enters the room. Anger follows. One of you goes quiet and internal. The other grows bigger and frustrated. By the end of the night, you are in the same bed but not in the same world.
You are not looking to leave. You are not looking for someone to fix your marriage. You are looking for help navigating a pattern you both secretly dislike.
She wants to desire him but shuts down when fear hits her body. He wants to feel lusted after and chosen, yet struggles to receive without tensing up. Both are scared of rejection. Both are tired of the same loop.
If this continues for five more years, resentment will harden. Sex may quietly disappear. Or pressure may explode in a reckless moment that fractures trust.
There is another path.
In our work together, intimacy becomes something you build with skill, awareness, and courage. You learn how to regulate your nervous systems together. You learn how to express desire without shame. You learn how to receive without bracing.
After three months, sex feels closer, inspired, and open again.
There is softness where there used to be tension. You feel understood and met sexually, and your partner feels the same. Trust deepens. Surrender becomes possible.
The spark that once felt was lost, returns.
You are not forcing chemistry. You are rebuilding it together.
Services
I offer fully clothed, consent based intimacy coaching for committed couples.
Sessions are 90 minutes on Zoom or in person in Laguna Beach, California.
A typical session includes:
- Clear intention setting
- Identifying the emotional and nervous system pattern beneath the argument
- Practical tools and guided exercises to shift the dynamic
- Homework that brings intimacy into daily life
I do not touch clients. I do not provide erotic massage or sexual experiences. I teach you how to relate to each other with clarity, confidence, and depth.
My specialty is somatic kink and power dynamics explored responsibly. If you are curious about dominance, submission, or erotic polarity, we approach it with maturity and emotional grounding, not performance or fantasy alone.
This work is educational, coaching based, and skill driven.
Sacred Sensuality Coaching | Orange County, CA | Rose
About Me
I am someone who feels deeply safe in my body when it comes to sex. I can talk about it openly, directly, and without flinching. That has not always been simple.
I lived for years with vulvar health challenges that forced me to become fierce about boundaries, communication, and sexual integrity. I had to learn how to advocate for my body. That experience shaped everything.
I have explored therapy, coaching, retreats, plant medicine, personal development, and years of alternative healing. What transformed me most was the somatic experience of sacred sexuality. Not theory. Not talk. The embodied practice.
Training includes:
- Certified Sex, Love, and Intimacy Coach
- Certified Dominatrix with specialization in healthy power dynamics
- Over a decade of Tantra study
- Somatic embodiment training
- Yoga teacher training
- Extensive leadership and personal development work
I never stop growing. I expect the same from the couples I work with.
Sacred Sensuality Coaching | Orange County, CA | Rose
Boundaries and Frame
I only work with couples who are both willing participants.
I do not work with one partner in secret.
I do not work with people who want genital massage or quickly “getting off”
I do not work with couples on the brink of divorce.
I do not work with people seeking someone to fix their marriage.
I require that couples have engaged in therapy previously and are already on a growth path.
This is not crisis intervention. This is refinement, maturation, and erotic evolution.
Next Steps
The only way to begin working with me is by scheduling a complimentary 30 minute consultation.
This consultation is held on Zoom. I do not offer phone calls. I want to see you both together, eye to eye. Body language matters. The dynamic between you matters. Our connection matters.
During this call, we explore what is happening in your relationship and determine whether we are a good fit.
If aligned, we schedule your first 90 minute session and design a coaching container that supports real change.
You can schedule your consultation here.
Final Note
If you are reading this late at night, lying beside someone you love but feeling distant, I want you to feel inspired and hopeful.
Not panictked. Not ashamed.
There is a way to navigate this without blowing up your marriage or burying your desire.
You do not need more pressure.
You need skill, courage, and guidance.
And if this feels like a full yes in your body, that is where we begin.
Testimonials
“We learned how to communicate with ease and reconnect in a way we did not think was possible after 18 years together. Our partnership now feels like a team again.” ~ Barbara B.
“We finally understood the patterns we had been stuck in for years. We repair faster, communicate better, and feel like we are truly in this together. After 26 years together, we didn’t think this kind of shift was possible.” ~ Audrey C.
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Tantra, Conscious Kink and Sacred Sensuality Coaching for Singles and Couples.
