Reclaim Your Pleasure
Do you find yourself people pleasing or stuck in the mold of a “good girl”?
Do you question whether you are worthy of your desires?
Do you think about the ways in which you are broken or flawed?
Eros is a life force. It is the force of longing, creativity, desire, expression, love, lust, and passion.
Our society is an expert at subtle manipulation, teaching women to suppress this force and subvert their own power. Society teaches us to look inward at our flaws, to loathe our bodies and disconnect from our pleasure.
When we lose touch with our eros we are losing a major part of ourselves. We may feel flat, depressed, and lose touch with the magic of life.
When we reclaim the energy that is already inside us, that which has been suppressed and oppressed, we take back our own power. We reclaim our desires and our agency. We learn to look outward at possibility instead of inward with critique.
I offer powerful and sacred work to support you getting in touch with your eros. Work that serves to find deeper alignment with your desires, intuition, and expression.
Sex & Relationship Coach | Boulder, CO | Sam Charles
Why I’m Here With You
I work with women who are navigating the space between pain and power, who are ready to heal from shame, from sexual trauma, from the ways patriarchy taught them to disappear inside their own bodies.
My approach is slow, intuitive, and consent-led. I don’t ask you to push through your edge—I meet you there with presence and respect.
We co-create a space where your “no” is sacred, your boundaries are celebrated, and your whole self is welcome—including the messy, the sensual, the scared, and the wild.
With my experience in somatic coaching, trauma empowerment, and conscious erotic practice, I offer a grounded masculine presence that serves you to find and nurture your erotic energy in service of uncovering your highest and most empowered self.
What Our Work Looks Like
Sessions are intuitive and tailored to your growing edge.
Sessions with me are somatic, collaborative and experiential. It’s not just about talking — we might breathe, move, or embody real situations. We use embodied touch and real intimacy in service of your growth. We honor your pace and the pace of your nervous system.
After a session, you might walk away with more clarity in your relationships, more ease in your body, stronger boundaries, deeper self-trust, and the ability to show up as your full self — unapologetically.
Sessions are held via phone, online or in-person in Boulder.
Ready to Begin?
This is for you if…
You feel a little nervous or excited reading this
You feel a longing to reconnect with your body, sexuality, or desire
You’ve been giving your energy away and are ready to reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your joy
You crave a deeper, more embodied relationship with your power and eroticism
You want to feel safe, alive, and at home in your own skin
→ Book a free discovery call
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Testimonial
“Words can’t fully articulate how Sam has changed my life already. He creates such a safe space it feels as though you are in the presence of a dear friend. You can feel his huge beautiful heart exuding compassion and care as he gently witnesses whatever you need to express and release. I have a lot of trauma related to men, so the gentle and kind masculine energy he embodies is a priceless gift. I have been able to release decades of pain which has allowed me to feel free and become my most authentic self. I am no longer bogged down by pain. I can finally breathe. I can’t thank him enough and I am eternally grateful.”
I’m Sam Charles, a Sex & Relationship Coach, I welcome women, couples and poly relationships.