Sacred Intimacy Guide

Colorado ; New York

Welcome.

Welcome to the intimacy you’ve been craving.
Welcome home to your body.
Welcome to pleasure.

I’m a Tantra and Sacred Intimacy Guide offering healing and transformative sessions that help you feel more alive, connected, and in touch with your pleasure.
I work slowly, with presence, and with deep respect for your nervous system.

Offerings For Men

90‑Minute Hands‑On Embodied Intimacy Session
This session is designed for men who are longing for intimacy, connection, and pleasure.

Sessions may include:

Simple breath, movement, and nervous‑system regulation techniques.
Intention and boundary setting.
Full body sensual massage on a heated massage table.
Exploring arousal without performance pressure.
Giving and receiving touch.
Practices for slowing down, staying present, and bringing choice to arousal.
Closing integration and reflection.

Sessions may be helpful if you are:

Craving deeper intimacy than hookup culture provides
Wanting to experience pleasure
Struggling with performance issues like ED or PE
Needing a safer, calmer way to explore arousal
Often in your head during sex and wanting to feel more embodied
Feeling like shame holds you back from what you truly want

Sacred Intimacy Guide | Boulder, CO | Sam Lucien

Offerings For Women

Embodied Desire Ritual
This is a ceremonial, body‑centered experience designed to support you in releasing armor, reclaiming your erotic self, and coming home to your body.

I offer an invitation to let go of stress, release stuck emotions, and unlock pleasure. With deep attunement and presence, we create space for life force to flow and let your desire guide the way. When we can listen to your body and honor your pace, pleasure arises organically.

This package includes:

30‑minute exploratory call
2‑hour in‑person ritual session
30‑minute integration call

The in‑person ritual session may include:

Intentions and boundary setting.
Simple body movements to ground and resource your nervous‑system
Guided breathwork to get out of our heads and more in touch with our bodies.
Consent‑based touch on a heated massage table to awaken sensation, pleasure, and move through blocks.
Emotional release – through tears, sounds, expression. You can let go of being “too much” or “not enough”. All expressions are welcome and held lovingly.
Closing ritual, integration and reflection.

Each session is tailored to meet your desires and uphold your boundaries with reverence.

Sessions may be helpful if you are:

Struggling with feeling like you are “too much” or “not enough”.
Feeling like shame holds you back from what you truly want.
Desiring grounding, masculine energy without pressure or expectation.
Wanting to experience pleasure.
Looking to explore arousal and find your deepest turn ons.
Often in your head during sex and wanting to feel more embodied.
Wanting a more loving relationship with your body.

Sacred Intimacy Guide | Boulder, CO | Sam Lucien

My Approach

My approach is informed by a background in somatic sex coaching, trauma-informed empowerment, and conscious erotic practice. I work as a guide which means I am not holding space for you, but walking with you, side by side, into deep erotic and relational spaces. In my presence you can rest, knowing you are held and taken care of.

Rather than imposing an agenda, we begin by clarifying your intention and allow that to guide our work, moving at the pace your nervous system can genuinely integrate.

Your intention may be to experience pleasure, or it may be to gently unwind long-held blocks to intimacy that have kept you guarded for years. Wherever you are, your desire and your timing are valid.

Throughout our work together, I am especially attentive to consent, pacing, and integration—so what opens in session can be embodied, meaningful, and sustainable in your life.

How you may feel after a session:

More pleasure and acceptance of yourself.
More regulated and at ease in your body.
Less tension or anxiety in your system.
More clarity on what you want and less shame holding you back.
Wounds beginning to or continuing to heal.
More alive.

About Me

My friends describe me as a great listener, gentle, and playful. I am naturally non judgemental and tend to connect with folks from lots of different backgrounds. I’m pretty far on the extrovert scale and love being around my people and getting to know new ones. I am a queer, polyamorous, cisgender man in my late 30s.

I’ve had a long journey with my own sexuality. Growing up queer and polyamorous, I hid and fought with so many parts of myself so that I could belong and be like everyone else. I spent years burying my own sexuality and pretending that sexuality wasn’t that important to me. I didn’t accept myself. I believed that I was unworthy of love and that I would never be met in my desires.

Through the last decade, I’ve shifted my own relationship with sexuality. I’ve learned to accept myself, and over time, to celebrate the parts of me I once hid in shame. I truly love working in the field of sexuality and liberating others. It is a gift and an honor to be trusted in this vulnerable space.

Ready to Work with Me?

I look forward to connecting with you.

Email me at sam.lucien.eros@proton.me or text (720) 583‑3511 to book a free discovery call or ask me any questions.

For those that are nervous or holding a lot of shame, I see you and I’m here for you. There is no need to rush yourself. When you’re ready, I’ll be here.

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I’m Sam Lucien, a Tantra and Sacred Intimacy Guide, I welcome folks of all genders and orientatiIons, and couples.

Sam Lucien ~ Sacred Intimacy Guide

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