My Sexual Wellness service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
I work with individuals, couples, triads and communities of all backgrounds who are ready for change and who desire authentic connection. My background includes therapeutic and sensual touch, somatica, somatic experiencing, yoga and herbalism. I enjoy co-creating safe space with participants as we move towards embodied fulfillment that they can experience even after we say goodbye at the end of a session.
Sexual Wellness | Santa Cruz, Bay Area, Atlanta | Annie Calyx
I find a lot of personal fulfillment in supporting people cultivating greater capacity to feel connected goodness, in general, as well as feeling truly connected, living on this paradise on Earth. My practice is based on the three pillars of universal human needs which are safety, worth and connection. I help individuals stay curious or cultivate curiosity around greater access to these basic human needs. This process can show up in the form of long term goals with a committed working relationship or it can show up in a single moment in our relational field.
Building connections starts with ourselves and yet, we must practice this ability and learn these skills with another. Many of us are socialized in an overly individualistic culture and the skills needed to support a more connected culture are learnable and accessible in working with me.
We can Explore:
- Embodied Boundaries, Consent & Connection
- Somatic movement
- Breath-work & Energy Circuits
- Erotic Dance
- Clarifying Core Erotic Theme
- Learn and experience the Art of Sensual Touch
- Awakening the Senses developing Intuitive Insight
- Options for Herbal Medicine
- Gender and Sexual Identity Curiosity or Shifts
I work with clients on a wide range of issues from confidence building, acute sexual trauma renegotiation, reclaiming love for their bodies, to erectile challenges and repair work. My ideal client is someone who is wanting to genuinely experience pleasure from deep embodiment and build relational skills. They are open to change and creating greater capacity to feel and be felt. My clients benefit from working with me because I have trauma training and also I work from a non pathologizing lens. I help normalize issues, reduce shame and help them navigate difficult relationship challenges. My clients and I are oriented more around skill building than experience seeking. Skill building can look like creating greater capacity to be with pleasure, sharing pleasure positivity and taking those experiences outside of the office to help create a more pleasurable world. I find fulfillment around helping my clients get their needs met outside of session and practice the ‘how tos’ in session. Let us create a more embodied and loving culture together!
Testimonials
“Annie is warm, safe, and authentic–all key ingredients for creating a safe container for working through sensitive issues at your own pace. I appreciated Annie’s experience when it came to psychedelic work. Annie helped me prepare before, provided comforting companionship during, and supported integration afterward. The whole experience was extremely fruitful. Thank you, Annie!” – Evan G.
“Annie is someone I can trust — I always feel heard by her. Annie has a great sense of what we need to address and work on and she holds the space for us to have difficult conversations.”- Kristi S.
”Annie was the perfect person at the perfect time for our relationship. She has a gift to be in the moment each session — listening and challenging and assisting. Her tools continue to help us grow as individuals and as a couple.” – Doug S.
“You’re lovely and easy to open up to. I feel safe around you and not judged.” – Chris B.
Services
- Somatic sensual connection
- Embodied empowerment coaching
- Somatic Experiencing and Somatica
- Masc and Femme integration – sacred androgyny
- 1:1, couples, poly-cule and community coaching
- Online or in-person sessions from 1 to 3 hours
- Personalized weekend retreats or intensives
Please reach out to me at bohelerlovage@gmail.com . Please use the subject line ‘Sacred Sessions Inquiry’. I offer a free 20 minute intake call where we can discuss intentions and see if we might be a good match.
You can learn more about me at Lovagesomatics.com
*I offer sliding scale fee tiers for BIPOC, LGBTQIA+ and those living with a disability. I myself am queer and live with a disability, please inquire for rate adjustments.
My Sexual Wellness service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
