Hi, I’m Nav — a queer man devoted to teaching slow intimacy and helping people return to the wisdom of their bodies.
As a permaculturist, I’ve learned the principle “slow it, spread it, sink it” — how water nourishes the land when it moves slowly and deeply. I bring this same principle to our erotic and sexual energy.
Slow Intimacy | Denver, Boulder, CO | Nav
So many queer and gay men learn about sex through pornography and dissociated hookups — where our unhealed trauma often repeats itself. My work offers another way: a space to slow down, feel, and reconnect to what is real.
My sessions are highly relational. We begin by attuning to ourselves — movement, sensation, presence — and then we attune to each other, exploring the emergent we-space between us. We move at the speed of trust.
A cornerstone of my work is the practice of being a loving witness. I believe shame is the absence of a loving witness — so in order to unshame, we invite loving presence, moving only at the pace our nervous systems can integrate.
Slow Intimacy | Denver, Boulder, CO | Nav
Offerings
Primal Embodiment — $350
We bring our animal bodies together in presence — following instinct, curiosity, and consent. This simple yet profound practice invites your body to move naturally toward pleasure and away from what doesn’t feel good. It’s an honoring of the body’s intelligence and desire.
Sensual Bodywork (One-Way) — $300
Relax into your body as I offer attuned touch to the places that long for attention, care, and healing. This session is ideal for those learning to receive and release — a safe, sensual exploration of trust and vulnerability.
Unshaming Kink — $400
I welcome all of you — the freakiest, darkest, and most hidden desires. Together, we create a space to explore what you’ve had to hide from yourself or others. Whether it’s roleplay (daddy/son), impact (flogging), or things that can’t be named here — every part of you belongs.
Connect
I offer a free 30-minute call where we can feel into whether there’s alignment — no pressure, just a space to be real, curious, and human together. This helps us both sense safety, resonance, and whether this work wants to unfold between us.
If you’re carrying shame, tenderness, or parts of you that don’t often get seen — you’re not alone. I’d be honored to hear from you.
+1 (815) 861-2023
naveedheydari@gmail.com
Visit my linked website to learn more about my Unshaming and Somatic Parts Work offerings.
Slow Intimacy | Denver, Boulder, CO | Nav
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I am Nav, Unshaming Eros Practitioner, I welcome women, men (all genders), couples, poly relationships.
