You want to feel more?
More ease in your body. More clarity in your desires. More depth in your intimacy — with yourself, or with the person you love.
Maybe you feel shut down, disconnected, or stuck in your head, like there’s something you can’t quite reach, even though you’ve tried. Maybe something between you and your partner has quietly drifted, not through conflict but through the slow erosion of presence. Maybe you’re longing for something you haven’t quite named yet, to surrender into capable hands, to be truly met, to feel the particular freedom that lives inside trust and conscious surrender.
You don’t need to know exactly what you’re looking for. Just that something is ready to shift.

That’s where I come in.
I’m not a traditional coach or bodyworker. I’m a different kind of space holder: grounded, heart-centered, woven with wildness, sensuality, and deep reverence for the erotic. I can be the steady witness who receives your full unraveling. I can hold the reins -warmly, firmly, completely. I can guide two people back into the same room, the same breath, back into each other — past the noise of daily life and into something real.
The shape of our work together depends entirely on what you’re carrying and what you’re ready for. Sometimes that’s tender, receptive bodywork like slowing down enough to actually feel. Sometimes it’s the exquisite relief of surrender to someone who holds power with care and intention. Sometimes it’s two people rediscovering each other through breath, touch, and the kind of presence that’s hard to find anywhere else.

This work lives at the intersection of the somatic and the sacred. Through breath, intuitive touch, conscious relating, and deep listening, we follow what your body knows. We move at the pace of your nervous system. We listen for what wants to be felt, healed, opened, or remembered.
This is not about fixing you. It’s about reclaiming what’s already yours: your pleasure, your voice, your desires, your edges, your joy. When we consciously tend to our erotic energy, it becomes a creative life force ..one that fuels confidence, enlivens relationships, and brings clarity to how we want to move through the world.
Whether you’re healing from disconnection, longing to surrender into warmth, or ready to find your way back to the person you love — I’ll walk beside you, guide you, and hold you with care.
Imagine living turned on by life, at home in your body, and unafraid of the full range of what you want. That’s the invitation. That’s the work.

My Offerings
Tantric Sensual Bodywork & Energy Alchemy 90 mins | $650
Attuned touch, conscious breath, and deep presence, in service of what your body is ready to feel. We move at the pace of your nervous system, listening for what wants to be opened, healed, or remembered. No agenda. No performance. Just you, arriving fully.
Soft Domme Session 90 mins | Starting at $800
Power held with warmth. Authority wrapped in praise. Surrender that feels like being cherished. This is domination rooted in tenderness and attunement — not severity or pain. You are guided, held, and celebrated within a dynamic where I lead with intention and care. For those drawn to surrender, to structure, to being claimed — whose body says yes to warmth over coldness, intimacy over distance.
Couples Tantric Journey 2 hrs | Reach out for pricing
For the couple who wants to feel each other — really feel each other — again. Through breath, presence, and conscious sensual touch, I guide you both back into the same moment, beneath the noise of daily life. Whether you’re deepening what’s already alive or finding your way back to each other, this is a space to be fully met by the person you chose.
Soft Domme & Tantric Healer | Boston, MA | Havilah Sol
What You Can Expect in This Space:
To book a session
Please fill out the form here or e-mail me at: havilah.sol88@gmail.com with the following info:
- Name, age, location
- Do you have any previous experience with Tantric Healing or embodiment practices? If so, tell me a little bit about it.
- What is the reason for your interest in scheduling a session?
- Are you looking for a deep shift and working together long term or a single session specific experience?
A non refundable deposit will be required to book and secure your appointment.
Please note that in order to work with me I require a picture of your ID and something to match your ID (such as social profile).
New clients may be asked to complete a brief phone screening.

I’m Havilah Sol, a Soft Domme & Tantric Healer, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.