I offer Somatic Intimacy Coaching & Tantric Massage Sessions to singles and couples in Boulder and Denver, Colorado, as well as Miami, Puerto Rico, and online worldwide.
Individuals & couples find me when intimacy or sex feels inconsistent, tense, or less fulfilling than they want it to be.
If you’re here because you want to experience more confidence, pleasure, and connection in intimacy, in relationships… explore more of your desires… and feel more in control of your body and arousal…
You’re in the right place.
My body-based and tantric approach, Somatic Intimacy Coaching, focuses on working directly with the nervous system and physical responses in intimacy.
My Tantric Sensual Massage sessions focus on exploring your desires, releasing tension and supporting you to experience deeper states of pleasure.

Clients seek my services when:
- Intimacy triggers performance anxiety, shame or difficulty expressing and receiving
- Desire has faded and they feel stuck or distant (revive the spark in a sexless relationship)
- Arousal or orgasm feels unpredictable (premature ejaculation control, ED)
- Looking to learn techniques for pleasure to feel more confident and at ease in intimacy
- Experiencing challenges in conflicts, or communicating boundaries & desires
- Desiring to feel cared for, loved on, worshipped, connected and ready to release tension

Common results my clients experience:
- Ejaculatory control / choice & full body orgasms (men & women)
- Increased confidence, skills & ease in intimacy, dating and life in general
- Renewed desire, attraction (polarity) and relationship connection
- Greater receptivity to pleasure and feeling more present in intimacy
- Clearer communication that feels easeful even through triggers
- Feeling rejuvenated, blissed out, lighter & energized after sessions

About My Approach
My approach is informed by years of experience supporting individuals & couples with intimacy and relationships challenges and is rooted in trauma-informed somatic coaching, tantric practices & intuitive energy work. Sessions are slow, highly customized and responsive to what is actually happening in your nervous system.
Somatic intimacy coaching supports you through the changes you desire by integrating with the body — not by forcing or “trying harder” — so that intimacy feels more natural, easeful and fully present. You experience more of life; more depth, trust, aliveness, connection and pleasure that expands you.
Heart-centered & sensual with a warm grounding presence, I welcome you as you are and invite you to relax, (re)connect, explore, receive, feel & transform, in alignment with your desires. As we journey together, you feel seen, heard, understood, attuned to, supported and held.
Come experience the magic that unfolds when slowing down to the pace of full presence.

Session Types & Rate:
- Somatic Intimacy Coaching (starts at $250/h online & $300/h in-person)
- Tantric Sensual Massage (starts at $400/h)
- Energy Orgasm & Kundalini Activation (starts at $300/h)
- Erotic Scene Planning & BDSM Exploration (starts at $500/h)
Other Services (please inquire):
- Psilocybin Journey Support
- Duo or Multiple Practitioners Experience (I have relationships with and work with a number of practitioners with a wide range of skills and practices)
- Tailored Multi Session Packages (reduces cost per session)
- VIP Day & Retreats
- Travel Companion
- Comprehensive Online Program on the Art of intimacy
Session Considerations
Outside of my travels, I host in-person sessions in my private & discreet studio in North Boulder. Our work together becomes exponentially beneficial with each session, as I get to know you.
Each somatic intimacy coaching or tantric massage session is uniquely tailored and may include various types of touch, somatic and tantric practices, emotional release, communication frameworks/practices like Authentic Relating, boundaries work, energy work, nervous system regulation and various other modalities.
Somatic Coaching | Boulder, CO | Elody Ecstasy
Connect With Me & Apply for a Session
2 options:
1) Schedule a short connection call here to explore how I can best support you.
2) E-mail me directly (empress.elody+se@gmail.com) with ALL of the following, to ensure a response:
- Full Name
- That you found me on Sacred Eros
- Photo of yourself
- Brief bio (age, occupation, relationship status, your experience/interest with somatic intimacy coaching, tantra, massage / bodywork & anything you’d like to share about yourself)
- Intention + type of session + what you desire to experience/explore/feel (please be specific)
- Location (I travel & do online sessions)
- Desired date(s) + time + length of session (+ time zone if online)
Once I receive your information, I’ll follow up with the next steps which may include a quick screening before scheduling your first session. A deposit is required to schedule a session, and travel time to you requires additional consideration.
I look forward to hearing from you and being of support in your journey!
Much love,
Elody

Testimonials
“Working with Elody completely transformed our relationship & sex life! In 36 years together, we’ve never been as excited for what’s ahead” ~ Dan & Wendy
“Working with Elody has been just short of miraculous! I used to never last more than 2 min and was placating in relationships. Now I choose exactly when to ejaculate and I feel much more confident (rooted in my masculine) – not only engaging with women but in my life in general.” ~ David
“We are deeply grateful for Elody. Working with her was all we hoped and more. In just one session, our connection strengthened and we learned so much. She perfectly understood how to help us and her intuition was spot on.” ~ J. R.
“It was refreshing working with Elody as she could support me in all aspects of my life in an integrative & holistic way which I was very impressed by. I highly recommend working with her.” ~ Miriam
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