Somatic Intimacy Guide

Austin, San Antonio, Houston, TX

Intro

If you’re here, you’re probably looking for something deeper than a massage or quick release. Most people I work with feel disconnected from their body, overwhelmed by their mind, or unsure how to trust their emotions. Some carry anxiety, numbness, or feel stuck in their head. Others long for touch but worry about pressure or being misunderstood. Many want to feel desire or aliveness again but don’t know how to get there without performing.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. You may simply need a grounded, steady presence you can relax into — someone who can meet you without expectation and without rushing your process. My work supports people who want to return to their body at their own pace, rediscover what feels true, and learn to follow their internal signals with confidence.

About — My Presence & My Approach

I’m a Somatic Intimacy Guide. My work is simple: I help people learn to trust their own body, mind, and emotions — in whatever order their system needs.

I don’t rush, fix, or guide you toward a predetermined experience. Instead, I track what’s happening in your body moment-by-moment and support you in following your own signals. Some people need grounding first. Others need emotional expression, quiet presence, warm touch, or permission to reconnect with desire on their terms. My role is to create a safe, contained space where your body can lead again.

Clients tell me they feel safer, more present, and more themselves the moment they step into my space. You don’t have to perform. You don’t have to know what you want. You’re welcome exactly as you are. I offer steady attention, clear boundaries, and a grounded, quietly playful presence. Together, we create the conditions where your system can settle, feel, open, and explore — all at your pace.

About Me

About ten years ago, I began to discover how disembodied I had been for much of my life — how disconnected I was from my own desires, my own pleasure, and my own body.

As I started learning to accept, understand, and deepen my relationship with my body, with desire, and with pleasure, the transformation was slow and often uncomfortable. But it steadily brought me into a deeper relationship with myself.

Through that process, I came to see how beautiful I am as I am — not defined by the stories I was handed at birth or the ways I believed I had failed, but by the freedom of living my body’s authenticity and truth without explanation or justification. I learned what it feels like to experience love and acceptance from within myself, rather than needing it from others.

This is why I feel so drawn to this work now. There is something profoundly healing about connecting with one’s own body — about feeling safe in one’s body, at home in one’s body, and able to experience pleasure and arousal without shame or pressure.

I believe our relationship with ourselves is the core relationship. The more deeply we can connect with our own bodies, the more naturally and honestly we can connect with others. I love supporting people in expanding pleasure through healing — and in discovering how healing can emerge through pleasure.

Somatic Intimacy Guide | Austin, TX | Kinsey

Services — Four Core Sessions

1. Homecoming Session
The slow return to your body. A grounding session to help your nervous system settle, breathe, and soften. We move at your pace as you reconnect with sensation, presence, and your internal signals. Supportive for anxiety, numbness, or overwhelm.

2. Rooted Sovereignty Session
Where grounding deepens into self-trust. Once your system settles, we explore the layers beneath — where confidence, curiosity, and a gentle spark naturally emerge. A session for people wanting to feel more like themselves again.

3. Play Activation Session
When the spark becomes movement. A gentle exploration of play, aliveness, and authentic desire. Not performance or pressure — a supported space to follow what feels good and alive in your body.

4. Held Edge Session
Exploration that’s supported, never pressured. For clients ready to work with vulnerability, expansion, or the edges of comfort. You set the pace. I hold the container. Your boundaries and signals guide the session.

Somatic Intimacy Guide | Austin, TX | Kinsey

Testimonial

“Before working with Kinsey, I felt disconnected from my body and unsure how to trust what I was feeling. Their presence is unlike anyone I’ve met — grounded, warm, and deeply safe. I didn’t have to perform or pretend. For the first time in years, I could just be myself. By the end of our session, I felt at home in my own skin, and my mind was quieter than it had been in months. What surprised me most was how natural it felt to open up. Kinsey invites honesty without pressure. I left feeling more alive, more confident, and more connected to myself.”

Contact & Screening

To book, email kinseykappler@gmail.com or text 512-417-5855.

I ask all potential clients to share a brief introduction and a few sentences about what you’re hoping to explore. This helps me understand your needs, ensure clarity, and make sure we’re a good fit before we meet.

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I’m Kinsey, Somatic Intimacy Guide.
I welcome: Women, Men, All Genders, Couples, Poly Relationships

Kinsey ~ Somatic Intimacy Guide

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