Somatic Intimacy Guide

Austin, San Antonio, Houston, TX

I’ve Been There. I’ll Walk You Through It.

Intro

If you’re reading this, I’m guessing there’s a part of you that doesn’t get much airtime: how you’re wired sexually, a version of your gender you’ve never tried on, a relationship shape that doesn’t match what you were handed growing up, or a desire you’ve never said out loud because of what it might say about you.

Maybe you’ve gotten good at managing that part instead of living it. I did too, after a divorce that made me question who I was outside of being someone’s partner. I spent years exploring my own gender and sexuality, and learned relationships don’t have to look one way to be real.

I’m not a guru, just someone with years of my own work behind me and enough experience to sit with whatever you’re carrying without flinching. If there’s a part of yourself you’re ready to stop hiding, I’d love to hear about it.

Here’s what’s possible when we work together:

A safe space to explore your desires without shame, guilt, or fear
Support processing resistance around your orientation, sexuality, or kinks
Clarity on who you are, what you want, and tools to build healthier connections
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About Me: My Approach and Trainings

Ten years ago my marriage ended, and it forced me to meet myself for the first time. That journey included a relationship coach, a swingers convention, and relationships with non-binary and non-traditional people, which showed me how much of my own gender I’d been performing instead of living. I tried on many identities before landing on who I am now.

Along the way I learned relationships work better as a conscious choice than something prescriptive or conditioned, and that shaping your own desires means moving through judgment and fear first. When I say I get it, I mean it. I lived this, and in many ways still am.

Here’s some of what I’ve studied over the last decade:

Five years mentored by a professional Dominatrix in BDSM and kink
Four years assisting the International School of Temple Arts, holding space for shame and fear around sexuality and the body
Ten years with tantra teachers, moving energy through sound, breath, and pleasure
Ten-plus years in conscious connection trainings on secure relationships, including polyamory and open dynamics
Four years building emotional capacity and security
Eight years of somatic training, tracking and clearing what the body holds

What a Session Looks Like

We usually start by talking: what’s going on for you, what you’re hoping to get from our time together, what’s off the table.

Our time together can include:

Bodywork: touch that settles your nervous system and rebuilds trust in your body
Erotic and relational coaching: guidance on desire, communication, and how you relate
Conscious kink: impact, roleplay, and power dynamics, used deliberately
BDSM: consent-based exploration of power, control, or surrender
Massage and energy work: grounding touch to help you drop into your body
Erotic touch: reconnecting with pleasure at your own pace, once there’s trust between us

Touch is generally one-way, meant to move energy through your body rather than a back-and-forth exchange. We close with time to integrate before you head out, and I’ll check in by email a few days later.

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Who This Is For

If you need a place to be held and heard, this is it. Come as you are, and use this space to figure out what you desire and be met in whatever pain or anxiety you’re carrying, without having to earn it first. I’ll guide you toward ease and clarity so you can walk out more integrated, empowered, and erotically sovereign.

Most of the people I work with are figuring out their orientation, their gender, or a relationship style that doesn’t match what they were handed, and are still hiding a piece of it from people around them.

This is for you if you:

Struggle to build long-term, intimate relationships and feel connected in them
Hide your gender identity or sexuality from people closest to you
Want to explore your kinks without shame, build relationship dynamics that fit you, and finally say the hard stuff out loud

What Clients Say

“Before meeting with Kinsey, I felt so much resistance to a part of myself, so much guilt and shame. I’d never shared that with anyone the way I did with him. He really listened, and I felt understood. He helped me learn to accept and love myself in a way I never thought possible.”

“All my life I’ve struggled to find and maintain romantic relationships. I thought I was doomed to be alone forever. Kinsey helped me see how my childhood conditioning was perpetuating a story that I’m unlovable, one I’d been replaying for years. I’m grateful for his help, and I’ve now been in a relationship for six months.”

“I feel safe being myself, being vulnerable, with you.”

Pricing

Sessions are $300 for 90 minutes.

If money is the only thing between you and this work, reach out anyway. I keep a few sessions open each month at a lower rate for people who need it.

Contact & Screening

To book, email sacredpleasure@proton.me or text 512-643-3525.

I ask everyone to share a short introduction and a few sentences about what you’re hoping to explore.

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I’m Kinsey, Somatic Intimacy Guide.
I welcome: Women, Men, All Genders, Couples, Poly Relationships

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