Somatic Sex, Kink, and Intimacy Coach

Washington DC, Virginia, Maryland

Pleasure is a Priority, Not a Perk.

Welcome, seeker.

Whether you’re here out of curiosity, longing, or the pull toward something more—you’re in the right place.
I’m Alisa, a somatic sex, kink, and intimacy coach, BDSM educator, and certified sexologist. I guide individuals, couples, and polycules into the transformative power of erotic embodiment—helping you claim the full spectrum of your pleasure, without shame or apology.
I create immersive spaces where you can safely explore desire, connect with your erotic self, and step fully into your authentic sexuality.

Who I Work With
You, exactly as you are.
All genders. All sexual orientations.
All relationship structures.

Curious about BDSM or kink and ready to explore safely?
Letting go of shame and outdated beliefs around sex and pleasure.
Submissives seeking empowered surrender.
Doms and Tops wanting deeper attunement and presence.
Sensualists craving full-body pleasure and erotic embodiment.
Roleplay lovers wanting scenes that arouse and expand.

If you’ve ever felt like your desires were “too much” or “not enough”—this is the place to rewrite that story.

What I Offer:

1:1 Coaching – personalized sessions to awaken, explore, and embody your erotic self
Couples & Group Coaching – deepen connection, trust, and play
Workshops – virtual or in-person experiences to expand pleasure & intimacy
Speaking & Guided Experiences – festivals, private parties, and BDSM events

How We Explore Together

My sessions are experiential, embodied, and tailored to your unique pleasure evolution:

Full-body pleasure mapping – uncover the textures, rhythms, and sensations that unlock deep pleasure
De-shaming desires – turn taboo into turn-on by dismantling limiting beliefs
BDSM & roleplay exploration – co-create scenes that feel thrilling, safe, and fulfilling
Consent & boundary mastery – know your ‘yes,’ trust your ‘no,’ and reclaim your power
Erotic embodiment & movement – breath, energy, and touch to bring desire into the body

My approach is shame-free and celebratory, honoring both the power and playfulness of sexuality. I weave together BDSM principles, somatics, cyclical living, and parts-work to support you feeling seen, held, and free. A Safe & Playful Space for Transformation.
Pleasure isn’t a performance—it’s an unfolding.In this work, emotions are welcome. Curiosity is encouraged. Vulnerability is celebrated.

I’ve guided:

Submissives into empowered surrender
Individuals in releasing old masks and claiming their authenticity
Partners in savoring adoration and deepening erotic connection
Kink newcomers in navigating BDSM spaces with confidence and self-trust
Wherever you are on your journey—I’ll meet you there.

Are You Ready?
I offer a free 45-minute discovery call to explore if we’re aligned.
Email me at intimacyillumination@gmail.com to take the first step toward your most liberated, turned-on self.
Desire is waiting. Will you answer?
You can also check out my website.

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I’m Alisa, a Somatic Sex specialist. I welcome individuals of all genders, couples and poly relationships.

Alisa ~ Somatic Sex, Kink, and Intimacy Coach

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