Are you craving true intimacy, tender touch, and unconditional love but find it difficult to be fully transparent in your relationships? Do you struggle with fear of loss, making someone uncomfortable, or feeling shame and guilt around your desires? You are not alone.
Hello, love—I’m Hannah Jo, a Sexuality & Polytantric Embodiment Coach. I offer heart-opening and sensual experiences designed to support your liberation and pleasure.
Tantric Lifestyle and Embodiment Coaching | Santa Barbara | Starlitt
In my Polytantric approach, we explore emotions like fear, shame, guilt, and grief as powerful gateways to deeper self-awareness and healing. For many modern men, this may feel radical, especially if you’ve been conditioned to believe you shouldn’t express or even feel certain emotions.
My sessions go beyond theory. I provide practical tools to help you embody new ways of relating to your sexuality, emotions, and triggers. In our work, we tap into loving energy and Eros (attraction, arousal, chemistry) without needing romantic or sexual involvement.
My Offerings
- 1-Hour In-Person Polytantric Coaching Session – $225
- 2-Hour In-Person Polytantric Embodiment Session (Santa Barbara) – $450
- 1-Hour Virtual Polytantric Coaching Session – $200.
In-person sessions are available at my studio in downtown Santa Barbara, with video call sessions offered worldwide. I also have limited availability in San Diego (11/1-11/3) and Santa Cruz (11/8-11/10). Email me today to secure your spot!
Sessions include (but are not limited to)
- Grounding breathwork and meditation
- Hands-on assisted stretching
- Clothing-optional Tantric Yoga (Yoga for better sex!)
- Tantric Thai Massage + Sensual Activation
- Sensual Domination
- Sex and relationship coaching
- Support with sexual dysfunction, exploration of edging, and semen retention
- Nervous system recalibration and trauma healing
- Polarity embodiment: balancing masculine and feminine energy
- Somatic experiencing
- Internal alchemy for releasing sexual shame and suppressed emotion.
I specialize in working with
Divorced Dads: Transitioning out of long-term (10–30 year) monogamous relationships can stir feelings of freedom and loss. Whether you’re exploring dating, polyamory, or tantra, our sessions will help you process emotions, reclaim your sovereignty, and navigate your new relationship landscape.
Married Men in Sexless Marriages: Many married men seek intimacy outside their marriage, often struggling with guilt, shame, or emotional disconnection from their partners. We will explore these desires with compassion, providing tools to enhance communication, rebuild intimacy, and initiate difficult but necessary conversations.
Testimonials
“Hannah was one of the most incredible people I’ve ever worked with. I became a better version of myself—more in touch with my body, heart, soul, and sexuality. Her framework was mind-blowing. It was an incredible experience.”
— C, Santa Barbara (In-person Polytantric Embodiment)
“If you want a no-nonsense, highly knowledgeable coach, Hannah is it. She creates a non-judgmental space that allowed me to open up and explore my mental and spiritual possibilities.”
— M, Florida (Virtual Polytantric Embodiment)
2:1 Couples Sessions
For couples wanting to use pleasure and sexuality as tools for healing, I offer an alchemical blend of embodiment, emotional intelligence, and loving sexual energy. These sessions help couples cultivate intimacy that transcends the physical, sparking new inspiration and connection.
Poly-curious couples: I particularly enjoy working with couples curious about opening their relationships. In a safe and emotionally attuned space, we’ll explore intimacy, open sexual energy, and any emotions that arise, creating profound personal insights and deeper connection.
What couples are saying
“Hannah Jo is phenomenal! Such a safe, sacred space to explore sexuality and partnership and how it all actually feels in the body. I’ve spent years in more traditional types of therapy and wish I’d found her sooner. She helped me and my partner lean into pleasure and desire with so much play. We laughed and got deep and were left feeling more connected and alive. Amazing!’ ”
— G, Santa Barbara (In-person 2:1 Couples Embodiment)
“Hannah is a talented coach helping couples reconnect. She has a strong presence, intuition, and isn’t afraid to speak her truth for her clients’ benefit.”
— R, San Francisco (Virtual 2:1 Couples Embodiment)
A Personal Note
I’m a daughter to a father who never showed emotional range. He wore a mask of toxic positivity that always felt off-putting to me. Sometimes his repressed emotion would erupt like a big explosion when certain triggers activated his inner child wounds. These outbursts sometimes caused him to black out, and he would even forget the intensity of the emotion and expression that had just overtaken him. Subconsciously, I began to model his behavior, trying to grow closer to him in the only way I knew how. When I became aware of this pattern in my early 20s, it catalyzed a deep healing journey of shadow work, emotional alchemy, and somatic healing.
Today, I am so grateful to guide men to reconnect to their emotions through a new approach. By using trance states, sensation, and attraction as tools, I help guide men into deeper feeling. I invite them to receive unconditional love and acceptance, sometimes for the first time in their lives. Since the spring of 2021, I have been guiding men through their deepest layers, helping them release the stifled tears they’ve been holding and melt into my compassionate heart. I feel I have truly landed in my purpose: to awaken humanity to the importance of our feeling bodies, including our sexual impulses, the full spectrum of our emotions, and the embodied experience of love.
I am so excited to connect with you and co-create this sacred space.
Schedule a free call HERE: DISCOVERY CALL
