Relationship Coach & Tantra Artist

Los Angeles, San Francisco, CA ; Berlin, Germany

Welcome

There’s a certain moment I often meet people in.

Outwardly, things are held together. Life works. You function, you perform, you adapt. But underneath that, something feels slightly hollow or out of reach. Intimacy doesn’t fully land. Touch can feel either distant, overwhelming, or strangely absent. There’s a quiet tension between wanting more depth and not quite knowing how to step into it without losing your face.

My work begins there.

Tantra Artist | Los Angeles, CA | Jaquelin Laurent

Offering

I offer Tantra massage and embodiment-based relational work rooted in presence, nervous system restoration, attuned touch, and emotional honesty. It is a space where the body is allowed to stop bracing and your inner tender world can start to reveal itself again. Not through force, but through attention, patience, and a connection that listens rather than demands.

Who do I work with

I work especially well with people who are sensitive, intelligent, perceptive, and often carrying a lot of internal complexity. Many are used to being composed, capable, and socially fluent, while privately feeling disconnected from their body, emotional landscape, or capacity for ease in closeness. There is often a high level of awareness, but difficulty staying with sensation without tightening, drifting into thought, or withdrawing.

I also work with women who feel a longing for more reverence, softness, and nourishment. Often there is a history of over-giving, self-abandonment, making ourselves smaller and more digestable, or a sense of always having to hold it together and stay strong. In sessions, I slow things down and create space for you to be met with care and reverence rather than pressure and expectation. What often emerges is a deep sense of nourishment and relaxation and a permission slip to be radically yourself that you carry into your life outside the session.

My Approach

An important part of my approach is that healing and integration are not only serious or cathartic processes. Fun, play, curiosity, humour, and pleasure are equally important nervous system medicines. When the system feels safe enough to laugh and play again, something deeply reorganises. People remember the joy of being alive, not just the struggle.

Session Structure

In sessions, we begin by speaking. We look at intention, boundaries, and what is actually present in you that day. I don’t assume direction in advance. The work is shaped in real time by what is true in the moment.

From there, the session unfolds slowly through touch, breath, grounding, and presence. My way of working is intuitive, but held by a gentle web of structure. There is a strong foundation of consent, communication, pacing, and continuous attunement. I track subtle shifts in breath, muscular tone, emotional response, and nervous system state.

What to Expect

Sometimes the system settles deeply. Sometimes emotion moves. Sometimes there is softness, sometimes intensity, sometimes unexpected ecstasy emerging. The sessions are not designed to produce a particular experience. The focus is to increase the capacity to stay present with whatever is already happening, including pleasure itself.

Over time, something often begins to reorganise in a very practical way.

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Client Stories

One client, for example, came in feeling isolated, bored and internally disconnected, with a sense that life had become functional but not true to his essence. What I noticed early on was that his system responded strongly to humour, imagination, and playfulness. I followed it. Over time, I encouraged him toward improvisation and clowning spaces where that part of him had space to expand and develop. Months later, his social world had shifted significantly. He was engaging with new communities, feeling more socially fluid, and reported a return of vitality and spontaneity in everyday life that had been absent for years.

Another client had a long-standing pattern of emotional shutdown in close relationships. She could articulate everything internally but would go quiet or disappear in actual conflict or intimacy and explode later, when least expected. Over time, the work supported her in staying present while naming what was happening in real time, instead of collapsing into silence or passive aggressiveness. This changed the entire structure of how conflict moved and intimacy deepened in her private relationships. Less buildup, less resentment, more direct emotional honesty in the moment.

This is a core skill that often develops through this work and carries into long term repatterning.

My Professional Training and Experience

My background is rooted in long-term intense work with embodiment and relational and internal intimacy.

I spent seven years working as a professional in BDSM and conscious kink spaces in Berlin, where I developed a precise understanding of consent, power dynamics, emotional regulation, projection, shadow material, and the importance of play and humour in navigating intensity. That work gave me a grounded understanding of how people move through vulnerability, control, surrender, and relational charge in real time.

I visited and facilitated temple nights in Berlin for about five years. That helped me develop my ability to notice, hold and shift energy in the room. It gave me a great understanding and compassion for how we mask and what it takes to feel safe enough to be ourselves and play.

I trained for several years in Tantra massage and Temple facilitation with Celeste González in Berlin, and later completed a month long Tantra facilitation training with Luna Agneya and Sanya Alaya in Spain.

In 2024, I spent three months in an immersive Mystery School training in New Zealand focused on embodiment, ritual practice, oracle work, unmasking and sense of comfort with nakedness, and infusing physical touch with the intangible.

Tantra Artist | Los Angeles, CA | Jaquelin Laurent

Values

What I bring into this work is a combination of attuned touch, deep empathy, relational intelligence, and lived experience working with emotional intensity, sensitivity, depth, and also the inner playful child. I am not interested in spiritual performance. I am interested in what actually happens between two beings who show up in their integrity and innocence.

How does booking work

If you’d like to work together, you’re very welcome. Please send me an email at jaquelinislove.com or a message on WhatsApp/Telegram (+4915566191144).

Include your full name, your location, desired date and duration you had in mind. In addition, introduce yourself with a few words about yourself, your experience, background, desires and intentions for our time together. Let me know which one of my offerings spoke to you the most and if you feel comfortable, include a photo of yourself, so that I know who I am speaking to.

Before working together, I offer a short conversation so we can sense alignment, clarify intention, and establish boundaries. A short voice call is free of cost for serious clients.

For first sessions, I do request a deposit and basic screening, such as a selfie with your ID and LinkedIn or reference from a colleague of mine.

Tantra Artist | Los Angeles, CA | Jaquelin Laurent

Rates

My rates begin at $250 for a coaching session and $500 for a Tantra massage, inquire for more..

Come as you are. There is no need to prepare, rehearse or improve yourself before meeting me.

If you are ready to do things differently and let some love in, you are in the right hands with me,

Love,
J

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I’m Jaquelin Laurent, a Relationship Coach & Tantra Artist.
I welcome:
women, men, all genders, couples, poly relationships

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