My Sacred Intimacy Coaching service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
Since before I had the words for it, I have been working with energy. As a child, I saw the healing power of touch through practicing massage with my parents. Later in life, I pursued professional healing through training in traditional massage therapy. I saw how much opened for my clients through my attention and presence. When I discovered Tantra, it changed my life forever. It was the key to me fully stepping into my purpose. I learned how to fully be in my body and how to be present and feel what is true in every moment.
For me, the Tantric Path is a deep spiritual practice of self realization, growth, and expansion. Some of the greatest gifts on this path are practicing unconditional love, detachment, and feeling what’s true in my body.
I’m here to provide the divine medicine of unconditional love. I am a channel for divine connection. I create a safe, sacred container that supports divine self love and connection.
The work I do is simple and profound at the same time – getting you in touch with your body, your divine nature, and the healing nutrients that your soul is calling for. My deepest desire is that all people have access to themselves as divine beings and that they feel safe, held, loved, and honored in their own bodies.
Sacred Intimacy Coaching | Santa Barbara, California | Tantric Shiva
It would be an honor to be a part of your healing journey. My offerings are as follows:
Tantra Massage (open to women):
The tantra massage ritual is a slow journey of opening your heart, going inward, and touching the deepest parts within your soul. In this three hour experience, we relate to each part of your body as a divine temple and go as slow as your body needs us to. This can be done at 1 of my healing studios in Santa Barbara or LA. I’m also happy to travel to create the ritual in the comfort of your own home. While each journey is unique, your experience could include:
- Healing trauma
- Clearing physical, energetic, sexual, emotional, and mental blockages
- Going inward with yourself
- Healing sexual dysfunctions (frigidity, sexual aversion disorder, etc)
- Realizing your full orgasmic potential
- Deep emotional release
- Loving your body
- Karma clearing
- Creating space for fuller expression
- An expansion of your energy field to foster more creativity
- Getting you in touch with the power of your own sexuality
- Awakening your spirit.

Sacred Intimacy Coaching (open to any gender):
In these sessions, we will look at what you are desiring in your relationship with yourself and with others. I will guide you towards your desire while helping you address energy blockages that are in the way. Just by having an intentional, connected conversation, we are creating the possibility for something new in your intimate life. I will guide you through conversation and practices, anchoring you in the Tantric principles that will uniquely support you. This might be for you if you are wanting:
- More connection
- More love or expression of sexuality
- A deep, sacred relationship with a partner
- A way to explore your spirituality in an authentic way
- Deeper access to your own internal sense of power and safety.

Couples Coaching (open to any sexual orientation or relationship configuration):
These sessions are done in partnership with my life partner. We will work with you to support the repair of any places where you have gotten disconnected and out of touch with your relationship. We will look at how you can each be unique sovereign beings and be in deep partnership. We will create practices to support the relationship you are wanting to step into. This might be calling to you if you are wanting:
- Practices for how to keep things “hot”
- Ways to come back together after disconnection
- How to create sacred communication and intention in your relationship
- How to create intimacy, even in the mundane
- Creating a shared future vision together that lights both of you up
If you are curious and would like to explore working together, feel free to book a complementary call to explore the possibility and we will create an experience that is aligned for you.
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Training Background:
Somananda Tantra School Certifications: Yoga, Meditations, Breathwork, Sexuality, Relationships, Rituals, and Tantra Massage Therapy
Trained in Shamanic Sexual Healing through the International School of the Temple Arts.

My Sacred Intimacy Coaching service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.