We are Amanda & Tom, we welcome women, couples, poly relationships.
We see you, beautiful human. And we’re so glad you’re here.

Love & Lust
You wish to experience more of your own erotic beauty and innocence. You want to discover, ask for and receive what you want, free from guilt and shame. You long to balance vulnerability with strength—soft, yet powerfully real.
You want sex, love and intimacy to be a potent portal into new dimensions of creativity, insights and effectiveness.
You want to reignite the spark with your long-term partner and renegotiate agreements to have more of what you want.
You want your desires to matter to someone.
You want to experience that your most intimate relationships have meaning and purpose.
You want to explore sexually while minimizing harm to you and the people you care about.
You want to be free from the fear that if you express your desires you will hurt others or be punished.
You have big dreams and while daunting, you cannot help but heed their call. You want to leave a legacy of love that touches the world around you.

About Us
We hold all of your desires, as a pathway to experiencing your full human potential. Desires lead us on a journey of discovering more of who we really are – through what we want – beyond what we think is possible. Because of this, we believe that all desires are sacred.
We bring our collective experience, education and expertise in Somatic Sex Education, massage therapy, meditation, pre and post-natal attachment dynamics, personality formation, wilderness guiding and leadership coaching & training to our containers. We create spaces for all genders, sexual identities and relationship structures that center safety, healing, somatic awareness, pleasure and integration.
We are parents, grandparents and devoted beloveds. Our highest shared value is honesty for the illuminating aliveness it offers relationships and our shared purpose is supporting others in life, love and intimacy. Meeting midlife, we know that is never too late to find your beloved, even if you question, like we did, that desire becoming a reality.
About Our Offering
Amanda works 1:1 (and 2:1 with Tom), with women and/or queer identified individuals. Together, they work with couples and groups of any gender, identity and relationship structure.
In this immersive experience – which ranges from 4 hours to 2.5 days – we celebrate you, right where you are, yet make space for the realization that it is entirely possible to create what you desire – in life, love and intimacy.
Let us say that again,
It is entirely possible to create what you desire.
If you want an embodied knowing of yourself beyond the limitations of your mind, culture and conditioning, this space is for you.
- Through slow and careful attunement, we build trust to co-create this immersion with you, which empowers your choice and voice in all areas of life.
- Through agreements clearly stated and lovingly tended to, your limits (and ours) are honored, so you can drop into a solid, sensitive, relational container that can hold all of you.
- Through clarifying & deepening intentions and desires for your life, we explore how you wish to infuse these intentions with tenderness, awareness and *pleasure.
- Through grounded, somatic practices – of breath, movement, sound and (re)- orienting to your internal sense of pleasure – we nurture you as the creator of your desires, even if they seem out of reach.
- Through integration, you capture practical ways to move forward and realize what is most important to you.
*While we all experience pleasure in our own unique way, we acknowledge that we may also experience limits and apprehension to experiencing pleasure – in our own unique way. While we hold pleasure as your birthright, we also honor any limitations that arise as valuable, intelligent and deserving.

Our immersive offerings are held in beautiful, curated spaces, with pre and follow-up calls to support your on-going integration.
If you’d like to learn more, book a 30 minute discovery call on our linked website.
We look forward to connecting with you!
We are Amanda & Tom, we welcome women, couples, poly relationships.
Email me at: honeybeeandhives444@gmail.com
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