Dominatrix

New York

You are always on, working towards your next accomplishment. You have tried all the conventional methods to get back to yourself, but return empty-handed – nothing gets you to the root of what’s missing. Turning towards your desire to surrender may feel scary or shameful. It overwhelms you to think: if I ever stop achieving, there would be nothing to love, nothing tovalue.

You need help exploring, slowly, with attention and care. Underneath your competence, you want to be cared for; stop managing everything and just receive. With me, you can stop leading, and you’ll still be worth my attention.

You found me.
Come closer.
Let’s begin.

My offering

I’m offering trauma-informed Dominatrix sessions. I work with clients who are submissive and want to explore kinks, or who want a strong Dominant guide as they are working through limiting beliefs they carry, such as shame or powerlessness.

Perhaps you don’t even know where to begin. That’s fine. Come to me with curiosity, humility, and a desire to surrender. Everything else, I’ve got.

If you rush and expect quick outcomes, I’m not your Mistress. But if you like the slow build-ups, sensual seduction, and teasing, apply.

I offer sessions in English, Spanish, or both. Sessions are virtual or take place in NYC.

Session work

You will start by reviewing and signing my guidelines and standards, and specifying consent around your goals, kinks, and limits for touch and intensity. You may disrobe at your comfort level – full nudity is fine. All touch is one way, from me to you. I will be clothed.

I do not provide sexual services. No sounding, blood, or needles. No intoxicants or stimulants of any kind. I run a sober practice and scene. I do not switch.

A typical session: I settle your body first using posture and firm touch. Then I begin physical stimulation from the list of kinks we agreed on, asking for verbal feedback so I know you are present and not dissociating. When the energy peaks, I bring you out slowly, then provide aftercare and space to discuss what came up. You always have the choice to use your safewords to request modifications or stop a scene.

Here are some areas I work in: Bondage and restraint, Sensation play, Impact play, Pain play, Esteem and identity play, Psychological play, Role play, Goddess worship.

I will stop working with a client if they are rushing my process, stop following instructions or are becoming belligerent about getting a kink that is out of scope of what we agreed. Some kinks are outside my scope, and I will tell you plainly if what you need is something I can’t provide.

My training

Priestess of Dark Eros Level I with Om Rupani – where I trained to handle a submissive’s body safely across impact, bondage, and sensory play.

Priestess: Power and Surrender Level II with Lauren Harkness – where I learned to use Dominance for trauma processing: guiding people safely through shadow work, emotional release, and taboo exploration.

About me

BDSM did what a decade in therapy and medication didn’t achieve – it returned my desire to live. While experiencing intense rope bondage, my body said: enough, you don’t want to feel like nothing anymore. This breakthrough is why I decided to train as a professional Dominatrix.

Since then I keep witnessing the power of BDSM to transform people’s pain into something they can actually understand and let go of.

Screening and Next Steps

If you made it this far, I’m pleased by your attention. I know what I want. Let’s find out if it’s you.

The only way to contact me is through my application form. I read every application myself. Be honest and specific about what you need and want. Your words are the cost of entry.

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Testimonials

“Dissociation and avoidance are my default after a lifetime of enduring situations I could not physically remove myself from. During our session, she held me firmly back to the present every time I tried to escape my discomfort. … I no longer seek the acceptance and validation from people who weren’t trying to understand me in the first place.” ~ Sub S

“One of the greatest gifts she gave me was helping me uncover a core wound I didn’t even realize I carried: the belief that I am a mistake. Through humiliation play, she skillfully revealed something I had been unconscious of. … That experience changed me. It allowed me to own my kink without shame, understand it more deeply, and begin alchemizing it instead of unconsciously living from it.” ~ Sub B

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I am Mistress Amada, a trauma-informed Dominatrix. I work with individuals of all genders and orientations, as well as couples & poly relationships.

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