Sacred sexuality mentor for Men Women & Couples

New York City, NY; Washington, DC

You’ve built a life that works.
A life that needs you.
To hold it all together.

The boss
The responsible father
The husband
The man everyone relies on

But beneath your functional life is a hunger to be met
In erotic aliveness, raw truth, and depth.

And now you’ve found yourself here.

So keep reading,

I am a Mistress of Eros.

I give your erotic energy somewhere to move, expand, and reveal itself.

My work will hold you, and catch the parts of you that sit beneath the roles you perform.

WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT

To be softened, challenged, deeply held, and awakened

VIRTUAL COACHING CONTAINER

Intro Sessions – 5 sessions | $2,000 USD

75 minutes each

For the man who knows something needs to change.

You want to deepen your capacity for intimacy. Maybe you’re struggling with disconnection, erectile difficulties, or simply feel like you’ve lost access to your personal power.

These sessions will get you back in the driver’s seat of your own life.

3 Month Coaching Container

My signature program for men who are ready to build a bigger life

Email: rubylovelight11@gmail.com to receive your application

IN PERSON

Devotional Tantra Session – $2200 USD

Approx 3 hours

For the man who desires to experience the depth of feminine care, devotion, surrender, and presence available to him.

Dark Eros BDSM Session – $1100/hour

For the man who wants to meet his sexuality at a deeper level, explore power and surrender, and reclaim authority over his life.

Tantric Activation Session – $1100 USD

For the man interested in sexual self-mastery, who has an existing non-ejaculation practice and wants to deepen his relationship with erotic energy through working with a tantric woman.

WHY I DO WHAT I DO

For more than 15 years, I’ve lived and worked inside transformational spaces, studying embodiment, Tantra, sexuality, consciousness, and the shadow.

What I’ve learned is simple:

Sexuality reveals what the rest of your life can conceal.

It amplifies everything:

where you grip
where you numb out
where you escape into fantasy
where you disconnect from truth

When your eros is online you can’t hide.

Not from me.
Not from yourself.

And this is where everything unlocks.

WHO MY WORK IS FOR

Men who are longing to have their systems deeply held and expertly handled
Men who are self-aware, but still feel a gap between what they understand and what they actually live
Men who crave greater depth, truth, and aliveness in intimacy
Men who have explored tantra, sexuality, yoga, meditation, or personal development and know there is another layer
Men who are willing to be challenged, surrendered, and met honestly
Men who want to experience more fulfilling relationships, beginning with a deeper relationship to themselves

WHAT THIS IS NOT

I’m not a destination for collecting fetishes.

I work with deeper currents and the result is always,

alchemy.

TESTIMONIALS

I am invigorated with the feelings and lessons learned with Ruby. Our time together was very much like a transcendent psychedelic or spiritual experience where you see things as a “life before” and a “life after” moment in time. New life, loss of life, new love, loss of love, health crisis, etc. These moments in time re-shape us, and peel off the noisy barriers that get in the way to our true selves.” ~ Steven

“I initially reached out to Ruby for a session and ended up working with her longterm. Working with Ruby transformed how I relate to myself. She creates a safe, deeply grounded space, and she’s remarkably skilled at seeing what’s beneath the surface: where I was holding back, numbing out, or performing instead of being real.

Her coaching isn’t about quick fixes. She guided me back into my body and helped me close the gap between what I understood intellectually and how I actually lived. I came away more present and more confident, with a sense of vitality I hadn’t felt in years. I can’t recommend her enough.” ~ James

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I’m Ruby Lovelight, a Wild Erotic Muse.
I welcome: women, men & couples.

Ruby Lovelight ~ Erotic Intimacy Coach

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