Sacred sexuality mentor for Men Women & Couples

New York City, NY ; Washington, DC

*Planning a trip to Washington DC – Dates TBD*

You’ve built something solid. You know who you are

You’re responsible
You provide
You sacrifice
You work hard

And it seems the very qualities that made you successful may also have taken you away from yourself.

Somewhere along the way, the part of you that feels deeply, spontaneously, erotically alive went missing.

Life became functional. Predictable.
Outwardly successful, but erotically numb.

Here is where we change that.

This is a space where your desires get to live
Where your erotic energy has a safe place to land, and your past stops predicting your future
When you work with me you enter a permission field. A space where you’re fully met exactly as you are

My sessions are a mirror into your inner world and a place to support the awakening and expression of your erotic power.

We do not perform or pretend.
We work somatically, with your body and your relationship to desire to reveal the true you

We go deep into the core and stay long enough for something real to emerge. The outcome is a version of you that is more embodied, connected to your heart and able to authentically command the intimacy that you deserve.

“I am invigorated with the feelings and lessons learned with Ruby. Our time together was very much like a transcendent psychedelic or spiritual experience where you see things as a “life before” and a “life after” moment in time. New life, loss of life, new love, loss of love, health crisis, etc. These moments in time re-shape us, and peel off the noisy barriers that get in the way to our true selves.” ~ Steven

What do I do?

My work is called Erotic Embodiment.

Erotic Embodiment is about using your erotic body and relationship to desire as a direct access point to the deeper mechanics of your identity, so you can stop performing who you think you are and start leading from your embodied truth.

It’s about becoming so anchored in yourself that nothing false can uphold.

Sexual energy is not the goal here.
It’s the amplifier.
It reveals everything:

where you grip
where you numb out
where you escape into fantasy
where you disconnect from truth

When that energy is online… you can’t hide.
Not from me.
And not from yourself.
And that’s where the real work begins.

Who This is For

Men who are self-aware but still feel a gap between insight and lived reality
Men who are craving more depth and truth in intimacy
Men who have explored tantra, sexuality, yoga, meditation but feel there must be more
Men who are willing to be challenged and meet themselves honestly
Men who want to experience deeper, more fulfilling relationships

What this is not

A place for role play or masochistic slut fantasies
A place to simply explore your fetishes
A girlfriend experience
Wild Erotic Muse | New York City | Ruby Lovelight

How to work with me

In-person – Guided transcendental sessions

Most of my work begins with an extended in person session and continues either virtually or in-person

FOR MEN

Devotional Tantra Session – $2200 USD *Approx 3 hours
This is for you if you desire to experience the depth of feminine care and devotion that is available to you as a man

Dark Eros and Conscious Kink Session (Min 3 sessions) – $3300 USD for 3 sessions * 2-3 hours each
This is for you if you are ready to meet your sexuality on a deeper level and reclaim authority over your sex life

Tantric Activation Session – $1100 USD *Approx 2 hours
This is for you if you are interested in sexual self-mastery, have a non-ejaculation practice, and you want to go deeper into your practice by sharing your field with a tantric woman

FOR WOMEN

Dark Eros and Conscious Kink Session (Min 3 sessions) – $3300 USD for 3 sessions * 2-3 hours each
This is for you if you are not getting your needs met by men and you are ready to go into your body and take radical responsibility for your experience.

*Each session begins with grounding, boundaries/consent and clear intention setting so we work with full clarity on what is being explored.
*Each session closes with integration, reflection, and clear aftercare practices so the work continues to unfold beyond the session.

FOR MEN & WOMEN

Virtual/Online – Relationship & Embodiment Coaching

Min 5 sessions – $1700 for 5 sessions *75min each

Wild Erotic Muse | New York City | Ruby Lovelight

For Men, Women, & Couples

You are experiencing systemic troubles in your relationship/marriage, low libido, ED, or disconnection from your sexuality and you are seriously committed to doing the work.

I have designed my work to guide you back into becoming sufficiently self-possessed, differentiated, embodied, sexually honest, and emotionally sovereign.

In working with me, you will learn to reignite your inner lover, initiator, embodied king/queen and understand, for yourself, what it means to cultivate erotic presence.

Prerequisite for all in-person sessions is a video interview screening.

Location and availability discussed upon request.

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I’m Ruby Lovelight, a Wild Erotic Muse.
I welcome: women, men & couples.

Ruby Lovelight ~ Erotic Intimacy Coach

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