Intimacy Guide

Seattle, WA ; Portland, OR ; San Diego, CA

“When was the last time you felt genuinely confident… in bed and in life?”

Most people who come to me know something isn’t working. Maybe your partner isn’t satisfied. Maybe you’re not. Maybe you’ve lost confidence somewhere along the way, or you’re carrying old baggage that’s getting in the way of real connection and pleasure.

I have found that my offerings resonate primarily with men; or women who have a strong draw to structure. These people are navigating real life stuff: stress, conflict and trauma, performance anxiety, intimacy blocks, and the unspoken weight that quietly kills the spark in relationships. I’ve watched people arrive guarded, disconnected, and stuck and leave with something they can truly feel shifting.

You don’t need to have it figured out before you reach out. Most people who find their way here don’t, and that’s exactly the right place to start.

What I want for you

Grounded Confidence
In the bedroom, the boardroom, and everywhere in between. A groundedness in who you are that isn’t dependent on circumstances.

Sex that feels present, not performed
Organic desire that rises when you feel safe. A body you actually inhabit rather than push through. No more self abandonment.

Communication that actually lands
Knowing what you need, being able to ask for it, and feeling safe enough to be honest with the people closest to you. Desires & limits.

Freedom from shame
Around your desires, your body, your past. A quiet wholeness that doesn’t need to be explained or defended.

Relationships that have room to breathe
Less tension, more honesty, and a genuine sense of aliveness with your partner or within yourself first.

Patterns you understand and can change
Not just insight but real, felt shifts that show up at home, in your relationships, and in how you carry yourself.

The body holds the answers

Most of us were never taught to listen to our bodies, only to manage them, push through, or ignore what they’re trying to say. The beliefs and wounds that shape our relationships aren’t just in our heads. They live in our nervous system, our breath, our physical patterns of tension and shutdown.

My approach works with that intelligence directly. We combine coaching with somatic (body-based) healing, nervous system regulation, and energy medicine so the work lands somewhere real, not just understood.

What to expect:

A thorough intake process so we understand what you’re actually working with
Somatic and Neo Tantric bodywork, nervous system support, and energy medicine
Trauma-informed coaching tools you can use in your daily life right away
Practical body awareness you carry forward on your own

My training spans Tantra, Neo Tantra, somatic sexuality, emotional intelligence, and consent — with teachers including Kirti Srivastava, Amara Karuna, Zoe Kors, Jaya of Erotic Blueprints, Layla Martin, Gabor Maté, Diederik Wolsak, and Betty Martin. Among many others.

I work with men, women, couples, and any relationship structure.

Intimacy Guide | Seattle, WA | Aiua Wild

Current offerings

1-on-1 Coaching

In-person & online – $220/hour Couples sessions available Packages at a discounted rate

Practical, trauma-informed coaching for people who want to show up better in the bedroom, the boardroom, and beyond. We work with the beliefs, past experiences, trauma and habits holding you back. The goal is your independence, not your dependence on me.

May include

Somatic awareness and nervous system tools
Trauma resolution and shame release
Communication and intimacy coaching
Hybrid sessions combining coaching with bodywork

Bodywork & Healing Sessions

In-person – $270/hour 2-hour minimum Packages at a discounted rate

A personalized, full-body session rooted in somatic healing and Neo Tantric bodywork. Therapeutic and educational, designed to help you reconnect with your body, restore sensation, and release what’s been stuck. May include erotic bodywork where appropriate to your goals.

Good for people who

Hold a lot of stress and tension in their body
Feel numb, disconnected, or checked out during sex
Struggle with anxiety, tension, or performance pressure
Carry old shame or guilt around sex and desire
Want to understand their body and pleasure on a deeper level
Want to be a better, more present partner
Feel like something is blocked but can’t quite name it

Just Coffee

In-person & online – $200/hour 1 hour minimum plus travel time beyond 20 minutes

Not sure where to start? Start here.

Not quite ready for touch? We meet over coffee, a walk, or conversation. An unhurried space to explore connection at your own pace. No agenda. No pressure. Just a place to begin.

All in-person sessions are touch-based or a hybrid of coaching and touch. Partial to full nudity is permitted for clients. I will be clothed or partially nude depending on the service. I do not offer full-service or girlfriend-style experiences. This work is rooted in healing, growth, education, and connection.

What clients say

“I have tried many different modalities over the past five years and nothing has been so lasting and effective as the work I’ve done with Aiua.” ~ Allysha

“This past week I have felt lighter and yet more grounded than I have in decades, perhaps ever. I feel like a new chapter of my journey has just been revealed.” ~ W

“The emotional release and physical spaciousness I experienced was so healing. Both Aiua and the skillset she brings are very deserving of that leap of faith.” ~ Laurie

“The biggest takeaway for me was allowing myself to surrender and trust… to ask for what I want and desire, and remember the joy I share with my partner.” ~ B.

Intimacy Guide | Seattle, WA | Aiua Wild

About me

My path to this work has been as lived as it has been trained. I came to this not from a place of having it all figured out, but from my own journey through the same terrain my clients navigate and a deep conviction that the body, when given the right conditions, knows the way.

I am a Liberation Coach & Intimacy Guide with specialized training in trauma resolution, Sacred Pelvic Healing, somatic intimacy work, Neo Tantra, Erotic Bodywork, nervous system regulation, energy medicine, and yoga. I am a master facilitator of A Path to Freedom, a system I designed to help metabolize trauma at the root level.

My vision is a world where people are no longer at war with their bodies, each other or their desires, where pleasure is understood as a pathway to healing, and real intimacy is something people actually know how to find.

How to work with me

I speak personally with everyone before we meet. A short video call to understand where you are, what you’re looking for, and make sure we’re a good fit for each other. I will review your application and respond within 24 to 48 hours.

Please note: I request a photo ID and one additional verification such as a LinkedIn profile, professional website, or similar before our first session.

Apply to work together:

I hope to meet you and have the opportunity to be of service on your journey.
Aiua

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I’m Aiua Wild, an Intimacy Guide.
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all genders, couples, poly relationships

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