The Sacred Sexual Priestess

I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia ...

Positively Kinky: Explore Kink to Strengthen Intimacy and Connection

Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s ...

Sexual Trauma and PTSD

Sexual Trauma and PTSD keep painful memories from our past alive and present in our day to day lives. Hypnotherapy uses ...

Tantric Touch ~ What is it?

BLISS-touch (tantric touch) - what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is "liberation through expansion.” How can ...

True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat!

True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat! This is a true story ...

Amber St. Germain’s Couples Course

Amber St. Germain Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being ...

Re-claiming Your Heart’s Safe Place

A client said to me today, "I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure.  What would ...

Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...

What The Heck Is An Erection Coach, And Why Do I Need One?

Erection Coach? by Shari James What the heck is an erection coach, and why do I need one? In the ...

The Man With No Legs

“Got one for you at the Marriott,” the man from her service said. “His name is Dan. Call me when ...

The Rise of Tantra Festivals

Why Tantra Festivals Are Growing in Popularity Globally Provided by Oshun Love Tantra Festivals are definitely on the rise. After ...

Prostate Play 101

Prostate Play 101 by Kiki Connects This article is for penis owners who are curious about experiencing the benefits to ...

What is Sacred Sexuality?

Where did it come from and what can it teach me about awareness and presence?  Is there something different about sex when we see it as sacred?

What does sacred mean? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m a pleasure activist. My mantras are “Choose fun. Do it for you. Have it your way. Say yes to desires—and express them!” I encourage women to flirt, turn themselves on, and brag. I help men trade in their intellectual minds and preoccupation with “doing” for timeless moments enjoying and feeling in their bodies. I see a softness wash over the faces of my clients, liveliness and hope returns, and the hidden girl or boy comes out to play. I’ve seen it and I love watching it happen.

I like to imagine a world serious about pleasure. You greet a friend excitedly: “Want to hear about the greatest orgasm I had last night?” Or, “The funniest thing happened when I was self-pleasuring in the laundry room this morning.” Or, teasingly, “Did I ever tell you about my imaginary lover?” We’re all ears. We’re kids at heart. When did we stop playing? When can we start again?

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