Why Tantra Festivals Are Growing in Popularity Globally Provided by Oshun Love Tantra Festivals are definitely on the rise. After more than two years of social distancing and being masked, the world is trying to recover from entrenched practices of disconnection. Many people are still feeling the effects of disconnection, isolation, and exhaustion in all…
What is Sacred Eros and how is How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites? by Joshua Sacred Eros is a directory of tantra and sacred sexuality practitioners. If you are new to Tantra or new to working with a tantra practitioner you might be wondering what it is all about and, in particular, how…
Prostate Cancer by Tracy Lee Arnie: Prostate Cancer When I first met Arnie, he had recently been through rectal surgery for prostate cancer. He was in the recovery stage and learning the new ins and outs of his genitals. Things no longer worked the same way. There was no longer a rock-hard cock, there was…
Erection Coach? by Shari James What the heck is an erection coach, and why do I need one? In the realm of men’s health, few topics are as important yet often surrounded by silence as erectile dysfunction (ED). Affecting millions of men worldwide, ED can be a source of both physical and emotional distress,…
Touch Trauma – Nathan’s Story by Tracy Lee Nathan is a client who came to me to fill the void of touch and intimacy that for the last several years had been missing in his marriage after his wife acquired a chronic illness. Time was long-overdue for Nathan to see a provider, but dedication,…
Erectile Dysfunction Case Study by Lora Al-Awar “I told Lora when I made my Karsai appointment with her, that sometimes things “worked”, and sometimes they didn’t. I woke up the morning following my first Karsai Nei Tsang session, and things were in the “up” position. This has not happened to me since I was…
Be the Master of Your Cock by Raven One of my clients can go for hours and hours without ejaculating. He’s never had a problem in that department, but I do work with others on the other side of the coin… This article is for you if you need some advice on lasting longer.…
Does Penis Size Matter? by Raven Does Penis Size Matter? In all my years of teaching workshops to men, serving as a Tantric Educator, and being an advocate for men to get their desires met, truly, the question I get asked most often is: “Does penis size matter?”. This is a question usually asked…
Transform Sexual Challenges (like Premature Ejaculation) into Gifts by Kiya Sexual problems are more common than many people realise. It’s certainly not something spoken about openly, because there’s so much shame connected to it. While some people may struggle to open fully to orgasm, others may ejaculate too quickly. For men, this can be…
Prostate Play 101 by Kiki Connects This article is for penis owners who are curious about experiencing the benefits to prostate play. First of all, you aren’t late or early to the party if this is your first time. I get it, the anus can be a little intimidating. You’re right on time my…
Sex, Money and Power by JagLion A threesome more sacred to most than The Holy Trinity. The music we listen to, the television shows and movies we watch, the very thoughts that consume our consciousness – boil down to these three things… Which, I argue, are all one and the same. Allow me to…
How James Overcame Premature Ejaculation by Lora Al-Awar My client James suffered from PE (Premature Ejaculation) all of his adult life. He is now 30, and the problem was not going away. Meeting women became an issue: during penetrative sex he was only able to last about 30 seconds. Feeling desperate, he was reluctant…
How to Choose a Practitioner and how to prepare for your appointment. How to choose the right practitioner for you on SacredEros.com SacredEros.com is an online directory of tantra teachers, sacred intimates, sexual healers and shamans, sacred sex guides, surrogates, intimacy coaches, sexological bodyworkers and pleasure artists, who serve women, men, transgender, non-binary persons,…
Welcome to Sacred Eros Who we are, what we do and why we do it. Who we are Welcome to Sacred Eros. We are a platform connecting you to a wide array of sexuality and intimacy professionals. We are erotic educators, tantra teachers, embodiment gurus, sexual healers, love coaches, sacred sexuality guides, sensual artists, sexological…
Sexual Dysfunction including erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation (PE), prostate issues, and porn addiction in men. Sexual Dysfunction in Men I’ve seen first hand the negative effects of ejaculating too frequently. As a Tantra Teacher men of all ages often came to see me due to experiencing sexual problems and dysfunction of various kinds.…
5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery by Melissa St Mari Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery are essential for any man who want to consider themselves an accomplished lover. Here are 5 reasons why you need it too: Performance Anxiety– when I talk with single men their # 1 sex and relationship…
Men – Learn to have Multiple Orgasms Before Ejaculating! by Melissa St Mari Yes, men can orgasm without ejaculating and they can have multiple orgasms before ejaculating! In fact this is the key to life long virility, vitality and prostate health! For most people sexual functioning and vitality start to go downhill at midlife.…
Prostate Problems Doesn’t Mean Intimacy is Over by Tracy Lee Prostate problems are frequent and cancer is one of the most common challenges of aging. I am beginning to understand its dynamic as I watch many of my clients experience the different stages. There are those in dazed confusion at just being diagnosed with…
Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted How to heal after a break up by Tallulah @tallulahillos.e Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted is a beautifully authentic and touching picture story written by a dear friend of ours Tallulah. We love Tallulah’s creative and sensitive nature and, of course, we love her art. If you would like to see…
“Got one for you at the Marriott,” the man from her service said. “His name is Dan. Call me when you get to the lobby and I’ll give you the room number.” Room 312. Every time she knocked on a hotel room door, she declared herself a channel for God. She rarely knew who was…
Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men. It is discouraging for a man to be told that you are not capable of being able to connect at the same heights as your female partner. Most men have experienced, at one point or…
This is not medical advice! Please consult your physician with questions! What is the prostate and its function in the experience of orgasm? The prostate is a part of the endocrine system, which regulates hormone functions in the body. It is the size of a walnut and the texture of cartilage (like the end of…
Mastering one’s sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much easier or harder when you are with a beautiful woman in an ecstatic experience. This is why when young boys masturbate quickly for fear of being caught or out of shame, they train themselves to…
Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I have been working on mastering for a very long time. And to be honest, after years and thousands kegel exercises, I’m still working on it. I use all of these tips that I am about…
For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic. What is “Hookup Culture” exactly? It’s still too early for any…
Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could Tantra enhance your single life? Tantra is a practice for everyone to first and foremost create a loving relationship and deeper connection with oneself. Singlehood is the perfect opportunity to start cultivating that relationship. Regardless…
Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want – everybody already knows that, right? How many times have we heard it? But has it gotten any easier? How do we really get comfortable with it? Asking for what we want is not a cool little sexual trick. It is a profoundly core issue;…
Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame. I understood the feeling of embarrassment, like when I said or did something stupid, but shame was not really on my radar screen. And there’s a reason why… my shame was so deeply repressed that I couldn’t…
The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an unprecedented possibility, that a tyrannical demagogue could inhabit the most powerful position in the country, placing the entire world at risk. My own personal history book will record the Summer of 2016 as a time…
Silent Suffering – and – Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear clients ask, “Tell me what you like” or “What do you want me to do to you?” at the onset of our physical intimacy. Such requests came not only from clients, but men in my…
Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from discussing the power of orgasmic energy, cultivating and storing sexual energy by relaxing in the bliss of aroused states. Without the rush to climax, he can experience a deeper and more expanding field of arousal,…
Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit and is best translated as the “Wand of Light and Power”. This wand is magical because it is a conduit that receives, stores and generates the power that creates life! Therefore it is a manifestor…
Pornography: Pros, Cons, and How to Watch It As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a big part of today’s sex scene, I’d better know more about it, so I spent a good couple months watching…lots. Very interesting experiment, I didn’t even need a vibrator. Instead of trying to answer whether…
Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance! What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we feel about it and what we do with it? Would it change the way our hearts engage? Sacred Intimate for men, Brad-Leaf Amberheart gives some insight about sexual performance – erections and challenges thereof.
Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit–I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic session, that they have a “premature ejaculation issue”. Why? Because I’ve guided numerous men in how to transform their so-called “premature ejaculation issue” into a source of great sexual fun. Over and over again, I’ve…