I offer somatic intimacy coaching, sacred touch practices, and a guided ascent to erotic empowerment — a pathway back to your body, your pleasure, and your confidence. Through co-created sessions, I help you reconnect with what’s true beneath the noise: your deep capacity to feel, attune, and adore.
Erotic Empowerment | Kansas City, MO | Annica Wilder
About My Work
My work blends 15 years of yoga and embodiment, a background in massage therapy, energy healing, recovery coaching, and somatic-based creative practice. I’m not here to perform, fix, or judge — I’m here to guide you home to your innate wisdom.
You won’t find scripts or strategies in my sessions. You’ll find warm presence, non-performative connection, and a deeply attuned invitation to explore intimacy, consent, and erotic aliveness with integrity and artistry.
I work exclusively with men who are ready to shed shame, awaken deeper layers of sensitivity, and show up as more embodied, present, and powerful lovers.
I help men remember what the body already knows:
That pleasure is a language.
That intimacy is an art.
And that your presence, not your performance, is what creates connection.
Offerings
Sessions are co-created, intuitive, and tailored to your needs. Available in person (KC area) or virtually unless noted.
1:1 Somatic Intimacy Coaching
For men ready to explore presence-based erotic growth, nervous system healing, and relational clarity.
Erotic Touch Practice & Consent Foundations
Build confidence in how you give and receive. Includes coaching on feedback, boundaries, attunement, and emotional safety.
Cuddle Therapy
A gentle, platonic offering designed to regulate the nervous system, reduce anxiety, and restore healthy intimacy through non-sexual touch and connection.
How to Please a Woman — With Confidence & Integrity
Embodied coaching for men who want to become attuned, generous lovers. Real talk. No shame. Deep transformation.
Virtual Rituals & Creative Embodiment
Online coaching sessions that include breathwork, mirror work, emotional release, and sensual reawakening for men ready to reconnect with their erotic nature.
Erotic Nervous System Reset (for Burnout & Stress)
A specialized session for men who feel exhausted, disconnected, or overstimulated. Helps rewire arousal patterns and return you to grounded erotic presence.
Shame Alchemy + Pleasure Reclamation Work
Release stored fear and emotional blocks around pleasure, touch, performance, and identity. Reclaim your right to feel fully and lead with care.
This Work Is For Men Who
- feel disconnected from their own pleasure
- want to understand how to touch, attune, and connect with women
- are healing from sexual shame, conditioning, or religious messaging
- want to be confident and caring in erotic connection
- are emotionally aware but unsure how to embody that sexually
- want to feel more — not perform more
I work with a limited number of aligned, respectful clients each month.
To begin
Email: wilderannica@gmail.com
Please include:
- Your name, age, and location
- Why you’re seeking this work
- Which offering you are interested in
- A recent photo (for screening only)
Once I receive your intro, I’ll reach out to schedule a 15-minute consultation. A deposit is required to confirm your first session.
Screening Policy
This is vulnerable, powerful work. All new clients are screened to ensure mutual safety, emotional maturity, and readiness for this kind of intimacy coaching. You must be open-minded, respectful, and willing to grow.
I’m Annica Wilder, Erotic Empowerment and Intimacy Coach, I welcome men.
