My Sex Coaching service welcomes men.
I am a trained Sex, Love, and Relationship coach through The Somatic University specializing in helping men redefine their masculinity for more satisfying sex and relationships.
Few men claim they are satisfied and skilled when it comes to emotional intimacy and relationships, instead reaching for avoidant behaviors like sex, video games, work, or porn to fill that need. Work, sex, etc. will never heal the deep ache in your belly for human love and connection. Love and intimacy are found through personal growth, vulnerability, effective communication, and conflict repair. My self-discovery and vulnerability-focused approach eliminates distractions and narrows you in on how to bring you the love and closeness you crave.
As you and I work together, you will most certainly experience more frequent satisfying sex if you want it (heck your job may improve too), but that’s simply a byproduct of personal development. It’s best to do the real inner work of learning to connect to yourself and others first. This is the foundation for better relationships (and sex).
Together, we will explore the following:
- Self-love, self-awareness, and self-acceptance
- Your needs, desires, and turn-ons
- Shame and or fear around your sexuality
- Establishing effective communication habits with others
- Feeling rejection and other challenging feelings
- Attunement and learning to read a woman’s cues
- Becoming more mindful and intentional in your actions
- Learning how to turn conflict into growth.
I was raised in an abusive religious home with no long-lasting love or connection. Love was always dependent on my behavior and something I had to earn. No rod was spared, and I endured every type of abuse at the hands of a man who was steeped in rage with no way out. Fear, shame, and disconnection were my makeup and how I operated.
I married young and started a family with a man I barely knew, getting married and staying together only because we already had a child, and I had no support from my family to do it any other way. I spent the next 13 years miserable and alone, trapped in toxic communication and emotional patterns. It was all I knew. I didn’t know healthy love, connection, and intimacy existed….yet.
In 2019, after a very traumatic and life-altering three years, I left my marriage with three kids in tow to pursue love, which I wasn’t even sure existed, but I was hell-bent on finding out. I didn’t have much formal training or work experience then, so I did all I could to make money, including working as a sex worker in person and online. It was then that everything started to change for me.
Through exploration and self-reflection, I began learning more about myself. For the first time, I felt a sense of autonomy and control over my life. I was learning about how I felt and what I wanted, learning how to ask for it, set boundaries, leave unhealthy relationships, and expand great ones! Despite all the great things that were happening, though, I still had tremendous pain bubbling up under the surface, and in 2020, I began therapy to address my childhood trauma. I still see a therapist to this day.
In 2021, I enrolled in Somatica University, an online intimacy Institute. There, I learned about healthy communication, vulnerability, and conflict repair. It wasn’t until I met my current partner, P, though, that I decided to dedicate myself to this work, walk away from full-service sex work, and make Pursue Your Wild my full-time focus.
Today, I help men reclaim their masculinity and cultivate love and intimacy through vulnerability and self-discovery. Love, connection, and success are within YOU. It’s not “out there”.” Emotional intimacy and connection with others are the keys to healing that ache in your belly. Wanting deeper connections is healthy and normal, and I can’t wait to help you achieve them!
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My Sex Coaching service welcomes men.