My Surrogate Partner Therapist service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples, poly relationships.
Discover Deeper Connection, Healing, and Pleasure
Do you long for greater intimacy, confidence, and fulfillment in your relationships? Do you struggle with physical touch, desire, or personal boundaries? Whether you are seeking to explore your sexuality, heal from past wounds, or experience new ways of connecting, I provide a safe, supportive space to help you embrace your authentic self.

Surrogate Partner Therapist
As a Surrogate Partner, Intimacy Coach, and Somatic Guide, I work with individuals and couples looking to expand their capacity for pleasure, deepen their emotional intimacy, and build confidence in their bodies and desires. My approach is rooted in mindfulness, somatic awareness, and intentional touch—all designed to support healing, empowerment, and transformation.
About Me & My Approach
I believe that intimacy is a skill, not just an instinct, and that everyone deserves to experience pleasure, connection, and self-acceptance. Many of my clients come to me feeling disconnected, ashamed, or unsure of how to explore their desires safely. My role is to help guide you through that journey with compassion, clarity, and respect.
I specialize in working with individuals who:
- Experience anxiety or fear around intimacy and touch
- Struggle with past trauma, shame, or body confidence
- Want to explore sensory play, dominance/submission, or therapeutic BDSM in a safe, structured, and healing way
- Desire hands-on guidance in intimacy, communication, and touch skills
- Need support in overcoming erectile dysfunction, low libido, anorgasmia, or performance anxiety
- Want to develop healthy boundaries and authentic sexual expression
My approach is informed by somatic therapy, surrogate partner therapy, BDSM dynamics, and mindful embodiment practices. Whether you seek a gentle, nurturing experience or wish to explore power dynamics, restraint, sensory deprivation, or guided surrender, I create a space where you feel empowered, safe, and in control of your journey.

Sessions & Services
I offer tailored sessions designed to meet your specific needs and comfort level. Sessions may include:Surrogate Partner Therapy
A structured therapeutic relationship incorporating guided touch, emotional intimacy, and hands-on learning to build confidence and connection.
Therapeutic BDSM & Power Exchange
Exploring consensual power dynamics, sensory play, and restraint techniques for self-discovery, healing, and nervous system regulation.
Intimate Somatic Massage
Full-body touch sessions to release tension, awaken pleasure, and cultivate body awareness.
Intimacy & Communication Coaching
Learn to express your desires, set boundaries, and create deep, meaningful connections with partners.
All experiences are consensual, professional, and tailored to your needs. I prioritize emotional safety, clear communication, and client empowerment in every session.

Next Steps
How to Work With Me
Your journey begins with a confidential consultation to discuss your needs, goals, and comfort level. To ensure a safe and aligned experience, I follow a screening process that includes:
- Initial inquiry including a photo, brief introduction, and contact details including references or links to professional websites
- A phone or video consultation to explore your interests and boundaries
- A mutual agreement on expectations, safety protocols, and session structure
I invite you to take the first step toward deeper intimacy, healing, and pleasure.
Testimonials
“I came to Ravensong unsure if I could ever feel comfortable in my body or with another person. Through our sessions, I not only discovered pleasure but also deep self-acceptance. This experience was life-changing.” – M.A.
“The therapeutic BDSM sessions allowed me to explore surrender in a way that felt safe, controlled, and empowering. I was able to heal past trauma and step into my desires with confidence.” – J.L.
My Surrogate Partner Therapist service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples, poly relationships.
Email me at: ravensong@surrogatetherapist.com
Visit me: surrogatetherapist.com
Phone: 617-906-6778