What is the G-Spot?
A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly erogenous and capable of ejaculation. It is also called the grafenberg spot. 35% to 50% of people can SQUIRT! It is not a myth and this can be used to dismantle the patriarchy!! Cis-straight men ain’t got shit on us!
The G-spot, also called the Gräfenberg spot (for German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg), is characterized as an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be located 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate.
The existence of the G-spot has not been proven; nor has the source of female ejaculation. Although the G-spot has been studied since the 1940s, disagreement persists over its existence as a distinct structure, definition and location. A 2009 British study concluded that its existence is unproven and subjective, based on questionnaires and personal experience. Other studies, using ultrasound, have found physiological evidence of the G-spot in women who report having orgasms during vaginal intercourse. It is also hypothesized that the G-spot is an extension of the clitoris and that this is the cause of orgasms experienced vaginally.
Sexologists and other researchers are concerned that women may consider themselves to be dysfunctional if they do not experience G-spot stimulation, and emphasize that this is not abnormal.
What is the Skene’s Gland?
In female human anatomy, Skene’s glands or the Skene glands (/skiːn/ SKENE; also known as the lesser vestibular glands, paraurethral glands, paraurethral glands, or homologous female prostate) are glands located on the anterior wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra.
What is the Bartholin’s gland?
The Bartholin’s glands (also called Bartholin glands or greater vestibular glands) are two pea sized compound racemose glands located slightly posterior and to the left and right of the opening of the vagina. They secrete mucus to lubricate the vagina and are homologous to bulbourethral glands in males.
What happens when I pee while orgasming?
It is common to experience urination while orgasming because the urethra (pee hole) is very close to the entrance of the vagina. I used to feel like I had to pee and would push out before I would have a deep orgasm, peeing all over my partner. Following your breath as well as not holding your breath will help. When you feel the urge to orgasm, slow down with intention.
How do I show my partner where my G-Spot is located?
With your partner’s index and middle finger, have them massage your vagina, while going inside 3 to 4 inches in and up, the G-Spot is located there. It may feel rougher than the rest of the vaginal walls.
“coronal planes during perineal contraction and finger penetration demonstrated a close relationship between the root of the clitoris and the anterior vaginal wall”. Buisson and Foldès suggested “that the special sensitivity of the lower anterior vaginal wall could be explained by pressure and movement of clitoris’s root during a vaginal penetration and subsequent perineal contraction”
Why is my G-Spot rough, shy, angry, sad?
Muscle memory and Somatic Emotional Release is common within the discovery of the G-Spot. This is why keeping a journal is important, you can track your emotions and objective(subjective) thoughts. The more I think of my orgasm as an intensity, like a wave, a pattern, the more I learn. Like on a scale of 1 to 10. Trauma is common within the vagina, ancestrally and from this life , I feel the more I masturbate the more I track where my trauma is in my body, where in my chakras I feel it. I like to use color visualizations, crystals, baths, etc.,to help myself.
How to form a relationship with your G-Spot!
Talk to your body like you would a lover, a partner, a loved one. Your relationship to your body is sacred! Affirmations, breathing and meditation help in forming a relationship with your G-Spot, ask your body what it needs everyday, check in with yourself.
G-Spot Journal! DIY Orgasms!
I recommend keeping a daily journal of how you feel, tracking your orgasms. The more you pleasure yourself and enjoy it, you form a truer relationship to your orgasm. Your orgasm is the key to your liberation! In the past I had others make me orgasm but I know now that I can do it myself! Also, the more powerful your orgasms the more it will help with your cycle, helping with cramping and bleeding. Track your orgasms like your periods! Who is the best at it, make a list, keep it close! Make the process creative and share your results with your friends!