The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage By Joshua Tantra massage is a sensual and intimate practice that involves various massage techniques to enhance physical and spiritual connection. However, in this article we will talk about the massage part of the Tantra massage session and the best essential oils that can be used…
Why Tantra Festivals Are Growing in Popularity Globally Provided by Oshun Love Tantra Festivals are definitely on the rise. After more than two years of social distancing and being masked, the world is trying to recover from entrenched practices of disconnection. Many people are still feeling the effects of disconnection, isolation, and exhaustion in all…
What is Sacred Eros and how is How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites? by Joshua Sacred Eros is a directory of tantra and sacred sexuality practitioners. If you are new to Tantra or new to working with a tantra practitioner you might be wondering what it is all about and, in particular, how…
Nourishing, Natural Medicine by Dakini Oceana Relationships are Nourishing, Natural Medicine Human happiness leads to health and fulfillment over a lifetime. From youth into older ages, your body wellness and mental calm are directly affected by the depth of your relationships with others. Developing an understanding of how to maintain and nourish body wellness and…
Prostate Cancer by Tracy Lee Arnie: Prostate Cancer When I first met Arnie, he had recently been through rectal surgery for prostate cancer. He was in the recovery stage and learning the new ins and outs of his genitals. Things no longer worked the same way. There was no longer a rock-hard cock, there was…
Erection Coach? by Shari James What the heck is an erection coach, and why do I need one? In the realm of men’s health, few topics are as important yet often surrounded by silence as erectile dysfunction (ED). Affecting millions of men worldwide, ED can be a source of both physical and emotional distress,…
Touch Trauma – Nathan’s Story by Tracy Lee Nathan is a client who came to me to fill the void of touch and intimacy that for the last several years had been missing in his marriage after his wife acquired a chronic illness. Time was long-overdue for Nathan to see a provider, but dedication,…
Prostate Play 101 by Kiki Connects This article is for penis owners who are curious about experiencing the benefits to prostate play. First of all, you aren’t late or early to the party if this is your first time. I get it, the anus can be a little intimidating. You’re right on time my…
Reactive vs Responsive Desire by Tracy Lee Reactive vs Responsive Desire in Intimacy, a story of Paul and Mary. I recently worked with a couple, Paul and Mary, whose desire for intimacy was mismatched. I want to tell you about them because they are a perfect example of a reaction vs response dynamic in…
Sex, Money and Power by JagLion A threesome more sacred to most than The Holy Trinity. The music we listen to, the television shows and movies we watch, the very thoughts that consume our consciousness – boil down to these three things… Which, I argue, are all one and the same. Allow me to…
How to Choose a Practitioner and how to prepare for your appointment. How to choose the right practitioner for you on SacredEros.com SacredEros.com is an online directory of tantra teachers, sacred intimates, sexual healers and shamans, sacred sex guides, surrogates, intimacy coaches, sexological bodyworkers and pleasure artists, who serve women, men, transgender, non-binary persons,…
True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat! This is a true story about a couple I helped. They live in Nashville and met at a Christian University in Texas where they were studying to be pastors! Now her husband had given her an ultimatum. They had…
Melissa St Mari Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being in love and blissful like never before. By Melissa St Mari He contacted me and told me he was very unhappy in his sexless marriage and was even considering hiring an escort to get his…
Welcome to Sacred Eros Who we are, what we do and why we do it. Who we are Welcome to Sacred Eros. We are a platform connecting you to a wide array of sexuality and intimacy professionals. We are erotic educators, tantra teachers, embodiment gurus, sexual healers, love coaches, sacred sexuality guides, sensual artists, sexological…
Lack of Sexual Desire in Women by Melissa St Mari The most common problem women have in relationships is lack of sexual desire. It’s one of the primary reasons relationships and marriages end. As a tantra teacher for over a decade the main reason men came to see me was because they were not…
Defining Connection versus Intimacy by Tracy Lee Recently my partner and I had what I thought was the most connective, amazing experience. We attended an event that involved each of our passions. I love to dance, sing and drum, and doing all three at once is an ecstatic moment for me. My partner is…
The Secret Spice How to find what you are craving in sex? by Tracy Lee What does your sex life look like? What would you like it to be? Are you in the NRE (New Relationship Energy) stage, where you can’t get enough of this new, hot, amazing person in your life? The sex…
Rituals by Tracy Lee “Honey, I’m home”, says the most important person in my life. “Mmm hmm” I mumble, not looking up from my task. I’m in do mode; don’t bother me, don’t interrupt. Technically of course I’ve already been interrupted by recognizing he’s home and responding (the socially acceptable thing to do). Is…
Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted How to heal after a break up by Tallulah @tallulahillos.e Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted is a beautifully authentic and touching picture story written by a dear friend of ours Tallulah. We love Tallulah’s creative and sensitive nature and, of course, we love her art. If you would like to see…
The Artforms of BDSM and Boundassage: Heightening Intensity and Pushing Boundaries Do you enjoy senso-sexual intimacy and exploration? Want to try stimulating your senses and boundaries with something more intense? . . . A movement beyond the usual realm, into something beyond. These Erotic Artforms and Expressions can release the self from the body. .…
Learning to Love our Bodies The body is your beginning. Yogic masters say that your body is: “Matter ascending toward spirit; spirit incarnating in matter.” Many of us were socialized in a culture that separates flesh and sprit, and chastises the body as an abode of evil instinct. Yet, we are seduced by the media’s sex symbols that urge efforts…
“Got one for you at the Marriott,” the man from her service said. “His name is Dan. Call me when you get to the lobby and I’ll give you the room number.” Room 312. Every time she knocked on a hotel room door, she declared herself a channel for God. She rarely knew who was…
There’s a ceremony in Tantra that involves naming your genitalia. Some western traditions of sacred sexuality contain information about reconnecting to your genital sense of Self. I was intrigued with all this when I first began my studies of various traditions of sacred sex. There are so many layers of shame and confusion that prevent…
Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s the beautiful nature of our erotic minds to engage with ideas that create arousal in our bodies. Kink teaches us to accept all sides of our erotic minds and use our taboos and desires…
BLISS-touch (tantric touch) – what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is “liberation through expansion.” How can we apply that to the connection through touch? Most people are very kinesthetic and they “meet and greet” the world and its beauty through the channel of touching. If you remember the girl Amelie from…
Sssshhhh… I want to share with you something very secret and very sacred. Something most people would never dream about which can totally change your life… A yoni massage. Yoni is the Sanskrit name for vagina, but it actually translates as womb or temple. Yoni is sacred and revered, unlike some of our common words…
The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes the cycles of orgasmic energy and inner rhythms and cycles of herself, her community and all of creation. In stepping into this archetype, we step into the wholeness of our power and repair our fragmented…
Sexual Trauma and PTSD keep painful memories from our past alive and present in our day to day lives. Hypnotherapy uses the power of your own mind to unlock the hold these memories have on you, by helping your brain process them in a gentle and effective way. PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome) remains largely a…
“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only oneness. No conflicts, no duality, no past or future, only presence and light. Then God became bored and so we created man and woman, so God may be entertained…… “ Something like this goes an…
If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I would say that it is bringing awareness, consciousness, light into your experience of your sensuality and sexuality. Meditation and sex, sex and meditation. Awareness as such does not sound like anything too exiting. In essence…
I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia between the ruling king and the highest ranking sexual priestess since the king’s right to reign depends on Ishtar, the ancient Goddess of Love’s favors. Inanna cries: My vulva, the horn, The Boat of Heaven,…
We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? The term isn’t well-known, nor is it something that has been developed traditionally. Sexual intelligence can be distinguished by two dimensions: The first involves sexual energy that brings forth life in all that is…
Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death we are breathing. Most of the time we breathe reflexively without thinking; inhaling and exhaling our way through morning routines, work, train or car rides, exercise, and sleep. Using the breath consciously as a tool…
For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic. What is “Hookup Culture” exactly? It’s still too early for any…
Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could Tantra enhance your single life? Tantra is a practice for everyone to first and foremost create a loving relationship and deeper connection with oneself. Singlehood is the perfect opportunity to start cultivating that relationship. Regardless…
Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising. While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past 50 years since the onset of the women’s movement, women are re-connecting with their ‘feminine’ essence. However, women are often still socialized to be ashamed of their sexuality. So what can a woman do to…
Why work with a Sacred Intimate? We all encounter at one point blocks that holds us back from living our full potential. For some the way they were raised taught them to have shame about their bodies or sex, for some a sexual violation brought distrust, pain or feeling not safe in the world, for some…
What Is Your Erotic Signature? Signatures are like snowflakes; no two are alike. My signature is uniquely my own and has had small to large variations over the course of my life. I have a signature I use when I’m in a hurry, I have a signature I use on legal documents, and I have a…
5 Easy Steps to Begin Unlocking Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure 1. CREATE A SAFE SPACE. Most of us underestimate the importance of actually having a place where we are free to speak our mind and let our body be free. Create this space in your home, or find a place where you can go and feel safe with you…
A client said to me today, “I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure. What would your advice be for me?” We had been immersed in euphoric pleasure for about 2 hours, so I felt clear as a bell. Without even having to think about it, I let my guidance speak…