Hands On Erotic Education
Berkeley, SF, Marin, Silicon Valley
My Erotic Education service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
Discover the blissful nature of who you really are when you are free from sexual shame, released from your limiting beliefs about sex and intimacy, and empowered as a lover and partner to speak your desires and own your pleasure.
Erotic Education | Berkeley, SF, Marin, Silicon Valley | Victoria Angel Heart
EMBODIED INTIMACY EROTIC EDUCATION
You desire safe intimacy and you want to have more pleasure in your life, but…
Right now, it’s just not happening.
You’re probably stuck in your thoughts a lot of the time, unable to fully relax and enjoy what’s emerging.
Perhaps you’re in a relationship that just isn’t meeting some of your needs, or you feel shame around your PE or ED issues.
Or maybe you want to learn new skills in the bedroom but don’t have anyone to practice with.
You might be curious about tantra, desiring to explore a world you’ve only heard about for yourself.
No matter what’s been happening for you, right now, you are ready to up-level your intimate life, and you need a safe person to practice your skills with. That’s where I come in.
Embodied Intimacy Erotic Education
Embodied Intimacy Erotic Education is different from most of the practitioners’ offerings on this site because I don’t give you an experience that ends in 90 minutes and leaves you wanting more soon after. I empower you with the tools, skills, mindset, and practices that actually change your sex life by coaching you, hands-on, over time so you can see tangible improvements and feel confident in your abilities as a lover and partner.
We will use many practices I’ve learned through training in tantra, somatic sex education and sexological bodywork. I work with your psyche to heal the roots of your limiting beliefs around sex and intimacy through NLP and EFT, and I work with your body through the Tamura Method of conscious energetic touch to meet, connect with and integrate your wounded inner child. Your erotic education is holistic and encompasses far more than you might realize when we first start working together. I am certified and trained in many modalities that I can call upon to best meet your unique needs.
I specialize in working with technologists, executives, VCs and founders who know that if they had more pleasure, every other aspect of their lives would improve. Look at working with me as a short term investment in your long term sexual wellness.
The foundation of our work together will be transforming your relationship to porn and run-of-the-mill masturbation to a mindful pleasure practice that is as powerful, delicious and orgasmic as partner sex! Once you master mindful self-pleasure, we expand our work to conquering premature ejaculation, learning to articulate your desires, exploring your erotic blueprint, and so much more. Only men who are truly committed to changing their old habits, beliefs and sexual scripts should reach out to me. Once we work together, your sex life will never be the same, and I only say yes to folx who are willing to put in the time, energy and financial investment to see lasting change.
Potential Educational Experiences
Getting out of your mind and into your body during sexual experiences
Experiencing receiving safe touch
Learning how to give better touch
Learning new strokes, techniques, and skills for enhancing personal pleasure
Learning new strokes, techniques and skills for enhancing partner pleasure
Learning to say No and hear No
Getting comfortable asking for what you want and desire
Practicing setting limits and communicating boundaries
Learning how to become a better cuddler
Learning how to initiate touch safely and without awkwardness
Creating a new relationship to pleasure instead of just “fucking”
Being more present while engaging in sexual experiences
Healing premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction
Learning the anatomy of arousal
Breathing techniques for heightened sensation and pleasure
Learning the difference between orgasm and ejaculation
where we meet 3x monthly for 90 minutes in person or on Zoom. *I do intro sessions to see if it’s an aligned fit before choosing to enter a container together*. We begin the Transformation with a half-day retreat to dive deep into your desires, longings and intentions and end with a half-day retreat to celebrate your progress, growth and learning. A sacred plant medicine ceremony can also take place as part of this container, if desired
The Transformation is designed as a 3 or 6 month container
The intro session is for us to energetically get to know each other and make sure we feel safe together. We will co-create a custom experience based on the top 3 desires you choose from my discovery questionnaire: https://forms.gle/ D5d11SdfGBmj6LEj8
In terms of touch, we “move at the pace of trust.” Our first session will involve nourishing and nurturing non-sexual touch. Erotic touch is only brought into later sessions as is necessary for your learning and growth. I am here to teach you how to fish, not take you fishing, so please do not expect a tantric massage, FBSM or anything similar in our work together.
If we both decide we’re a good fit to continue working together, typically our work together will eventually involve erotic touch in one or both directions. This stage always comes after we set the groundwork of presence, boundaries, attunement, and getting in touch with your desires. Depending on the client that can happen within a few sessions or many sessions later. It’s important that you not enter into this work with a “goal oriented” mindset – for it is that very mindset that will keep you from experiencing the pleasure that is available to you in this very moment!
What clients are saying:
“I am astonished at how much Victoria’s guidance has improved my love life. I am feeling more comfortable than I ever have with partners. Friends, lovers, and coworkers have all commented that there is something different about me since I began working with her. I am incredibly grateful I found her, and proud of the work we have done together so far.”
“Victoria helped me to actually feel my feelings and stop burying/denying my truth. I recognize my triggers but with her assistance I’m operating at a new frequency. I’ve found my previously untapped power, and now I can be a kickass CEO, dad and lover.”
“I am blown away by the results I experienced after coaching with Victoria! After a frustrating year of trying various techniques with my partner (and failing regularly to bring her to orgasm), I finally found success in just 12 minutes of using Victoria’s approach. The somatic sex education practices she gave allowed us to explore and experience new levels of pleasure. My partner’s response was immediate and the results were remarkable. In just two 6-minute sessions, she went from rarely having an orgasm to multiple, intense orgasmic experiences and finally squirting. I am so grateful for the Embodied Intimacy Transformation and the positive impact it has had on our sex life. Thank you for this life-changing experience!”
VOCAL SEX MAGIC
What if your sex, whether alone or with a partner, was always magical, wild, uninhibited, and fully expressed?!
Would you like to feel free to make authentic, pleasurable sounds without shame, judgment or fear?
Do you feel limited in your ability to speak your heart’s deep desires?
Do you envy people who can express themselves with ease?
Have you ever wished you could make more sounds of pleasure during sexual experiences?
Do you desire a road map to explore the connection between touch and your voice?
How would your life change if you could unabashedly ask for what you want, say how you feel, and express your pleasure?!
These are all questions we can explore within the framework of Vocal Sex Magic.
Not sure what sex magic is? You’ll learn techniques to use your creative life force energy to manifest your dreams into reality and experience ecstatic states along the way!
Vocal Sex Magic is a specific track within Embodied Intimacy coaching that focuses particularly on the connection between the voice and pleasure
Non-ordinary states of consciousness are psychedelic! They help you to get out of your head, stop overthinking, and feel less stressed. You can do this through meditation, Breathwork, and many other modalities, and often a journey with a psychedelic ally can help you have a more profound experience where you feel more open and connected to your body, heart, and pleasure.
I am trained in Psychedelic NLP and can take you on a journey out of your mind and into your body so you can experience new pathways to pleasure that last for a lifetime. This is offered in conjunction with embodied intimacy erotic education.
I’ve spent six years perfecting my cuddle sessions as a Trained Cuddlist so you experience unconditional love that lets your fears and blockages around touch melt away and be replaced with confidence in your ability to give and receive safe, nourishing platonic touch.
I studied at Oxford, I’m a Fulbright Scholar and I’m a Teach For America alum. I combine my almost of eight years of experience in the field of somatic mindfulness to give you an experience where you can experience the safe, healing touch you need. In our sessions, you’re in charge! I can help you figure out what kind of cuddling you like and positions you enjoy, and if you desire, I will guide you through practices that will calm your mind and relieve your stress. I’m a non-judgmental, warm, safe, and supportive cuddly presence.
Working with you is not a job for me. This is my service to the world. My life’s purpose is to be a conduit of love – allowing each and every person I meet to feel loved and to recognize themselves as love. That means when we cuddle, I will offer you unconditional love and care, no strings attached and no reciprocity required.
Victoria Angel Heart, M.Ed, CMT-P, is on a mission to bring people into their heartspace through music, meditation and embodied intimacy work.
Since 2019, Victoria has worked as a Professional Cuddler, supporting tech guys in the Bay Area to relieve their stress, connect with their bodies, and experience nurturing, unconditional love in a safely held container.
Now, she integrates professional cuddling into her embodied intimacy erotic education coaching programs that help burned-out, stressed-out folx reconnect to their bodies & hearts and learn new ways of experiencing and sharing pleasure. She also mentors new professional cuddlers and facilitates regular conscious sexuality events throughout the Bay Area. She’s studied sexological bodywork, neo-tantra, somatic sex education and the Wheel of Consent, and is certified in both NLP and EFT. Trained at UCLA as a mindfulness meditation teacher, she’s a featured teacher on the Insight Timer app, where she’s taught over 20,000 students live and has half a million plays of her meditations and music. She’s been singing professionally since she was nine, and has been leading Kirtan and sacred music since moving to Maui in 2018. Tracks from her debut album Into The Heartspace, produced by Grammy-nominated producer Ben Leinbach, are available wherever you stream music.
Victoria doesn’t believe in strangers, just friends she hasn’t met yet, and she loves teaching live classes and supporting people 1:1 because of the healing that is created when we lift each other up, truly listen with presence, speak from our hearts and embody intimacy together.
“Victoria is such a beautiful being. Her voice, her heart, and her presence blew me away. I sought her out because I was looking not just to be touched, but seen, heard, felt, and understood. I thought there must be someone out there who could offer me (and my nervous system) the feeling of abundant, unlimited comfort, attunement, and regulation I was looking for, and there is. Let her expand your reality!”
“Victoria is one of the most intuitive, warm, and present cuddlers I know. She instantly makes you feel at ease and brings a sense of loving care to her sessions. Wonderfully communicative, playful, and if you’re lucky, she’ll uplift you with her angelic singing voice. She’s like cuddling with the essence of Joy. I highly recommend her to everyone :)”
“In Victoria’s presence, I feel like I am sitting by a lake. There is serenity in the air. A moment of silence is as endearing as a moment when she bursts out singing. Her soul is enriched by an insatiable curiosity for life, relationships, and love. If you have stories to tell she is genuinely interested. She will hug you and make you feel cared for. I strongly recommend her.”
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