The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage By Joshua Tantra massage is a sensual and intimate practice that involves various massage techniques to enhance physical and spiritual connection. However, in this article we will talk about the massage part of the Tantra massage session and the best essential oils that can be used…
Why Tantra Festivals Are Growing in Popularity Globally Provided by Oshun Love Tantra Festivals are definitely on the rise. After more than two years of social distancing and being masked, the world is trying to recover from entrenched practices of disconnection. Many people are still feeling the effects of disconnection, isolation, and exhaustion in all…
What is Sacred Eros and how is How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites? by Joshua Sacred Eros is a directory of tantra and sacred sexuality practitioners. If you are new to Tantra or new to working with a tantra practitioner you might be wondering what it is all about and, in particular, how…
Nourishing, Natural Medicine by Dakini Oceana Relationships are Nourishing, Natural Medicine Human happiness leads to health and fulfillment over a lifetime. From youth into older ages, your body wellness and mental calm are directly affected by the depth of your relationships with others. Developing an understanding of how to maintain and nourish body wellness and…
So You Want to Book a Session by Goddess Maggie In this captivating realm where spirituality and human connection intersect, the exploration of sacred sexuality has garnered increasing attention as a path toward profound intimacy and personal growth. As our practitioners engage in practices that intertwine sensuality, spirituality, and emotional vulnerability, ensuring their safety…
Transform Sexual Challenges (like Premature Ejaculation) into Gifts by Kiya Sexual problems are more common than many people realise. It’s certainly not something spoken about openly, because there’s so much shame connected to it. While some people may struggle to open fully to orgasm, others may ejaculate too quickly. For men, this can be…
Reactive vs Responsive Desire by Tracy Lee Reactive vs Responsive Desire in Intimacy, a story of Paul and Mary. I recently worked with a couple, Paul and Mary, whose desire for intimacy was mismatched. I want to tell you about them because they are a perfect example of a reaction vs response dynamic in…
Sex, Money and Power by JagLion A threesome more sacred to most than The Holy Trinity. The music we listen to, the television shows and movies we watch, the very thoughts that consume our consciousness – boil down to these three things… Which, I argue, are all one and the same. Allow me to…
5 Steps to Owning Your Jealousy in Relationships Jealousy can be the ultimate poison to relationships. It can also be the most valuable tool for personal and relationship growth. Here’s how to own your jealousy before it owns you and destroys your relationship. Accept your jealousy as a natural emotion. It is normal to…
How to Choose a Practitioner and how to prepare for your appointment. How to choose the right practitioner for you on SacredEros.com SacredEros.com is an online directory of tantra teachers, sacred intimates, sexual healers and shamans, sacred sex guides, surrogates, intimacy coaches, sexological bodyworkers and pleasure artists, who serve women, men, transgender, non-binary persons,…
True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat! This is a true story about a couple I helped. They live in Nashville and met at a Christian University in Texas where they were studying to be pastors! Now her husband had given her an ultimatum. They had…
Melissa St Mari Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being in love and blissful like never before. By Melissa St Mari He contacted me and told me he was very unhappy in his sexless marriage and was even considering hiring an escort to get his…
5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery by Melissa St Mari Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery are essential for any man who want to consider themselves an accomplished lover. Here are 5 reasons why you need it too: Performance Anxiety– when I talk with single men their # 1 sex and relationship…
Rituals by Tracy Lee “Honey, I’m home”, says the most important person in my life. “Mmm hmm” I mumble, not looking up from my task. I’m in do mode; don’t bother me, don’t interrupt. Technically of course I’ve already been interrupted by recognizing he’s home and responding (the socially acceptable thing to do). Is…
Becoming Bob The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas (And an invitation into an online exploration for couples) by Corinne Farago When I first saw Eve Ensler’s The Vagina Monologues in 1996, One of the monologues stood out to me. It was a woman’s account of being with a man named Bob. This is some…
Treat yourself to a Tantric Massage & Take away Intimacy Tips by Liberty Storm A Tantric full-body sensual massage is a wonderful act of self-care. Let go of mental stress and float into bodily pleasure and an ecstatic energy state! But perhaps gents, you can have your cake and eat it too! Let me explain,…
Top 10 States for Tantric Massage Let’s keep this simple. You are travelling across the states and want to know where to find a Tantric Massage. You might even want to sample this pleasure multiple times on your trip. Below are the Top 10 States for Tantric Massage. California (South) First and foremost we have…
Learning to Love our Bodies The body is your beginning. Yogic masters say that your body is: “Matter ascending toward spirit; spirit incarnating in matter.” Many of us were socialized in a culture that separates flesh and sprit, and chastises the body as an abode of evil instinct. Yet, we are seduced by the media’s sex symbols that urge efforts…
BLISS-touch (tantric touch) – what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is “liberation through expansion.” How can we apply that to the connection through touch? Most people are very kinesthetic and they “meet and greet” the world and its beauty through the channel of touching. If you remember the girl Amelie from…
How to live in big city and have a wholesome/awesome sustainable practice, even when you are most of the time overwhelmed with the wild speed of the never sleeping high tech city such as New York? It’s tough, is not it ? But where there is a will there is a way. You can definitely…
The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes the cycles of orgasmic energy and inner rhythms and cycles of herself, her community and all of creation. In stepping into this archetype, we step into the wholeness of our power and repair our fragmented…
“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only oneness. No conflicts, no duality, no past or future, only presence and light. Then God became bored and so we created man and woman, so God may be entertained…… “ Something like this goes an…
If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I would say that it is bringing awareness, consciousness, light into your experience of your sensuality and sexuality. Meditation and sex, sex and meditation. Awareness as such does not sound like anything too exiting. In essence…
Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men. It is discouraging for a man to be told that you are not capable of being able to connect at the same heights as your female partner. Most men have experienced, at one point or…
This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 Elements Tantra Massage Step 3 – expanding how we touch and play! So – let us return to the visualisation of our vaginal numbness, as a small child who has frozen with fear. I am…
A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and busyness of daily life. We engage in the realm of personality and lose sight of the extraordinary miracle we each are. But what if you made a conscious decision to bring the quality of devotion…
At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It’s derived from the Three Minute Game, developed by Betty Martin. In this game, you ask your partner “How would you like me to touch you?” .Your partner says, for example “I’d like you to stroke my face”, and if…
Here’s an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone – titled ‘A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for more powerful orgasms’. In the vast and Cosmo-flavored world of sex tips, there’s an overabundance of technical advice in circulation. Touch her g-spot like so. Try the corkscrew blowjob. Put a pillow under your…
Mastering one’s sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much easier or harder when you are with a beautiful woman in an ecstatic experience. This is why when young boys masturbate quickly for fear of being caught or out of shame, they train themselves to…
We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? The term isn’t well-known, nor is it something that has been developed traditionally. Sexual intelligence can be distinguished by two dimensions: The first involves sexual energy that brings forth life in all that is…
Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death we are breathing. Most of the time we breathe reflexively without thinking; inhaling and exhaling our way through morning routines, work, train or car rides, exercise, and sleep. Using the breath consciously as a tool…
For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic. What is “Hookup Culture” exactly? It’s still too early for any…
Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could Tantra enhance your single life? Tantra is a practice for everyone to first and foremost create a loving relationship and deeper connection with oneself. Singlehood is the perfect opportunity to start cultivating that relationship. Regardless…
The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an unprecedented possibility, that a tyrannical demagogue could inhabit the most powerful position in the country, placing the entire world at risk. My own personal history book will record the Summer of 2016 as a time…
Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence The reports of senseless violence are dominating the airwaves recently. Just when we think we’ve heard the last of it, another report comes in. Feelings of helplessness and anger arise and we have no idea what to do with them. How do we manage our own lives while…
Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from discussing the power of orgasmic energy, cultivating and storing sexual energy by relaxing in the bliss of aroused states. Without the rush to climax, he can experience a deeper and more expanding field of arousal,…
Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit and is best translated as the “Wand of Light and Power”. This wand is magical because it is a conduit that receives, stores and generates the power that creates life! Therefore it is a manifestor…
Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex? Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and receiving the pleasurable attention of your partner during foreplay? Or do you feel the need to return the favor right away? Sherry told me that she feels selfish when she just receives the pleasure that…
Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit–I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic session, that they have a “premature ejaculation issue”. Why? Because I’ve guided numerous men in how to transform their so-called “premature ejaculation issue” into a source of great sexual fun. Over and over again, I’ve…
A client said to me today, “I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure. What would your advice be for me?” We had been immersed in euphoric pleasure for about 2 hours, so I felt clear as a bell. Without even having to think about it, I let my guidance speak…