Sssshhhh… I want to share with you something very secret and very sacred. Something most people would never dream about which can totally change your life… A yoni massage. Yoni is the Sanskrit name for vagina, but it actually translates as womb or temple. Yoni is sacred and revered, unlike some of our common words…

The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes the cycles of orgasmic energy and inner rhythms and cycles of herself, her community and all of creation. In stepping into this archetype, we step into the wholeness of our power and repair our fragmented…

“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only oneness.  No conflicts, no duality, no past or future, only presence and light.  Then God became bored and so we created man and woman, so God may be entertained…… “ Something like this goes an…

What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly erogenous and capable of ejaculation. It is also called the grafenberg spot.  35% to 50% of people can SQUIRT! It is not a myth and this can be used to dismantle the patriarchy!! Cis-straight men…

This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 Elements Tantra Massage Step 3 – expanding how we touch and play! So – let us return to the visualisation of our vaginal numbness, as a small child who has frozen with fear. I am…

[This is the second in a series. For the first part – see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing through Tantra Step 1 – Arriving at and accepting a depth conceptualisation and experience of our sex as it is. Often we are so drawn by ideas of how we would like our sex to…

[This is the first of a series of 3 articles – see the end for links to the others.] Female Sexual Dysfunction Vaginal numbness Primary and secondary anorgasmia Situational anorgasmia Vaginismus All terms that describe a huge range of experiences with a diversity of causes: when women or people with vaginas, find their enjoyment of…

The origin of the Yoni Egg: The Yoni Egg is made of a smooth, non-porous, semi-precious gemstone and carved into the shape of an egg, and is to be worn inside the vagina. It is believed that women have been practicing with stone eggs for over 5,000 years.   While originally used to improve the physical…

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic. What is “Hookup Culture” exactly? It’s still too early for any…

Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could Tantra enhance your single life? Tantra is a practice for everyone to first and foremost create a loving relationship and deeper connection with oneself. Singlehood is the perfect opportunity to start cultivating that relationship. Regardless…

Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want – everybody already knows that, right? How many times have we heard it? But has it gotten any easier? How do we really get comfortable with it? Asking for what we want is not a cool little sexual trick. It is a profoundly core issue;…

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood the feeling of embarrassment, like when I said or did something stupid, but shame was not really on my radar screen. And there’s a reason why… my shame was so deeply repressed that I couldn’t…

The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an unprecedented possibility, that a tyrannical demagogue could inhabit the most powerful position in the country, placing the entire world at risk. My own personal history book will record the Summer of 2016 as a time…

Silent Suffering – and – Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear clients ask, “Tell me what you like” or “What do you want me to do to you?” at the onset of our physical intimacy. Such requests came not only from clients, but men in my…

Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising.  While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past 50 years since the onset of the women’s movement, women are re-connecting with their ‘feminine’ essence.  However, women are often still socialized to be ashamed of their sexuality.  So what can a woman do to…

How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm From Mare Simone: Enjoy this powerfully vulnerable, personal review about Tantric Touch-Therapy and how it helped deepen Melissa’s Love-Life! Honored to be able to help! I celebrate transformations from NUMB to YUM!!   As I have been there too. Can you relate to Numbness or Pain where there should be pleasure?…

Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead) Ladies, if you are faking orgasms, please rest assured that you are definitely not alone!  Some studies have said that over 80% of women fake orgasms on a regular basis, often during intercourse.  Even yours truly has faked them occasionally. Rather than shaming ourselves, let’s look…

What Is Your Erotic Signature? Signatures are like snowflakes; no two are alike. My signature is uniquely my own and has had small to large variations over the course of my life.  I have a signature I use when I’m in a hurry, I have a signature I use on legal documents, and I have a…

A few myths: 1)  Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young people is the truth about their sexuality and that sex often gets better with age.  Young people feel pressured and frantic to do it now and get it right because soon it will go away. …

This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and Caroline Muir’s book Freeing the Female Orgasm and information from One Taste’s Orgasmic Meditation. It is adapted from Deborah Sundahl’s Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot book, and is based on my own experience receiving yoni…